Well she s very pretty but i discovered one day that shes lesbian, what can i do?
2006-06-22 21:36:29 · 27 answers · asked by anibal_carthago 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Move on - or accept her and the fact that you will never be intimate with her. There are certainly many pretty heterosexual women and you deserve a woman who is going to want to be with you and love you for the person you are.
This woman cannot and does not want to be with you so please find a woman who does.
Good Luck!
2006-06-22 21:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first, understand. Understand the love you have. Make sure it is not lust. If you fully love her, then you will be just fine accepting her for who she is. And it is just fine being friends. Love is the best when each are just friends. This is the problem with most that go into relationships. They do not understand that they are still just friends, but giving more trust towards one another. When a couple gets together, most tend to start possess the other. Then it all gets ugly. So, I say just stay friends and have fun. Keep your mind off about anything sexual. Sexual stuff will only make things complicated. Remember that there are always plenty of fish in the sea. I wish you best of luck. Cheers!
2006-06-23 04:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been though a long relation with a lesbian, you will never change her, she will never be with you. It sucks but you just need to move on. I've been there when she was hurt, when she was crying, when she broke up with her girlfriend. We had the best times together but she will not commit. You will never figure her out.
2013-12-09 00:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confess your love and try your hardest to let her spend one day with you. She chose to be a lesbian so she can choose to change. Spend alot of time with her. Show her that you can be the one that she can need in life as a partner.
2006-06-23 07:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ashlay D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lesbians are lesbians for a reason,They hate men! (Helfa's)
2006-06-23 04:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... My answer may not really please you as men always end up in sex ...that what begins with love. If you could distinguish between these two... I mean love and sex... perhaps you found your answer already. If you love her truly... be there for her what ever it costs you in terms of time and emotions. But if you wish to culminate your love in to sex... Just forget that you are in love with her....In the first place... Good luck to you
2006-06-23 04:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by cheenuray 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a sex change.
Seriously though, give up, if she's a lesiban, she will have no sexual attraction towards you whatsoever, and will probably only ever love you as a friend.
2006-06-23 11:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by Irish_bi_female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you but if she is truely gay then you probably won't get much farther than very close friends. If she's bi--- you might stand a chance!
2006-06-23 14:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only do small things, but you can never really change her. Though this may sound cliche, you have to accept her as she is. If she reciprocates your feelings, she'll change---gradually.
2006-06-23 04:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by twisted illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out, if your a friend of hers ask her why she likes women, and jokingly tell her you do too. Ask her if she has ever been with men, maybe you can turn her straight.
2006-06-23 12:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by Moose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋