Do you have an explanation for this???

Question

I have nothing agaisnt gay people and i have a few friends..
Sometimes i see a guy and i kind of feel like just kissing his lips..
I have done a few things with guys, like massaged his * just for curiosity...
but i have only had girlsfriends and i really loved them and i want to have a normal family and everything and be straight, although i do feel attracted to some men. why? what does this mean? will it stop? iam 17 and its been a while..

Answer 1

Go Talk With Your Family Doctor.

Answer 2

It means that you are at least a little bit bi-sexual or maybe what is called "bi-curious." It's not something that's all that abnormal, actually.

Remember the Kinsey Report (they made a movie about it a short time ago)? Kinsey was the first person to interview thousands of people, just to find out what people are REALLY like, sexually, when they feel that they can tell people things anonymously and it won't come back to haunt them. And Kinsey found out that many, many people are at least a little bit bisexual. He made up a scale from zero to six, with zero being totally heterosexual and six being totally homosexual, and he found that many people were ones through fives. It sounds like maybe you're anything from a "one" to a "two," using Kinsey's sexual orientation scale.

Answer 3

It sounds like you are bisexual. You have leanings for both males, and females. That does happen, and it's not easy to deal with.
What if you marry a woman and some time have an affair with a man? How can she compete with that? You need to be very careful.
Counseling might help you adjust to your feelings, but it won't change your nature or get rid of your feelings for men.

Answer 4

Explanation? You're normal! At your age your hormones are looping the loop, lucky thing. There's no shame in it. Why do you need to define yourself in a particular way? You're simply discovering new sensations and you're way to young to be worried about your sexual orientation. You may or may not continue to feel attracted to men. It doesn't matter. Just treat everyone you are intimate with with honesty and respect and be safe. One day you'll be blown away by an individual who will fill your world and you won't be interested in anyone else, male or female. Stop worrying. You don't need to justify yourself. be happy.

Answer 5

No, son, it won't stop. And neither should you worry about it.

When a person is 17 their dick gets hard just thinking about sex; male or female.

I would suggest that if you feel like kissing a boys lips you should consider him sexy.

If you feel like kissing a girls lips you should consider her sexy.

The thing about sex is that we don't get to choose what makes us feel sexy. Either you do feel sexy or you don't.

It means that you should follow the hottest piece of tail that you know of until you get it. If it is a boy, then so be it.

Regardless; be proud of who you are and don't be afraid of what you want.

Answer 6

Dont worry! At this age some do feel attracted to the same sex! ITs normal! U will get out of it! And dont try massaging ....It wont help u get out. U might wanna go to a doc.

Dont worry! Be happy!

Answer 7

I would ahve to classify you as Bi-curious and if I were you, before you go and make a huge commitment later in life I would experience it all the way to satisfy your "craving"! That way you will know which you like better and for all you know you may find out that you are bi-sexual and that's cool to! So don't let society discourage you. You can't help how you feel and for those who can't accept it, to dam! bad

Answer 8

At 17 it is normal to experience what you are feeling, it doesnt mean anything other than you are curious.

Answer 9

it sounds like youre gay. i could never do anything like that just to be curious....so you are very gay!

Answer 10

seek therapy or consider suicide.