My girlfriend left me yesterday. She said some nasty things. I still love her but I just don't know what to do with myself. I feel like my life's going to pieces because I'm having problems at work too. Can anyone help?
2006-06-22 21:14:39 · 7 answers · asked by chris0072k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There would come a time when we have to stop loving someone, not coz they started hating us but coz we found out that they would be happier if we let them go! you will know when you realy love someone, you will want them to be happy even if it means your not a part of it.
If someone comes into your life and becomes a part of you, but for some reasons they couldn't stay, dont cry to much, just be glad that your paths crossed and somehow they made you happy even if it was only for a while.
There are somethings we never want to let go of, people we never wanna leave behind, but keep in mind that letting go is not the end of the world but rather is the beginning of a new life. You don't wanna let go but it's even more painfull to ask someone to stay if you can never make the relationship workout the way it should be.
there is nothing wrong with you still loving her, remember it takes a min. to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, a day to fall in love with someone, but it takes a lifetime to realy forget someone you have grown to love.......
2006-06-22 21:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by cominatsha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get over heartache just takes time and it could be a week a month a year you never know but you will get over it. Try getting out and putting the pain into something your good at. A good friend always helps too.
2006-06-23 04:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow can we say dyslexia princess...n-e-ways...its will hurt for a long while but don't let it affect you...DON"T LET IT!!! You control your emotions not the other way around..busy yourself with whatever is around the minute you start to think about her..do something, run, pinch yourself...take out the garbage..hand out with friends. When it becomes too much...time yourself like 15 minutes to think about her and get to terms with what you dealing with..after 15 turn it off and keep going..That will train you to deal with your emotions and not let them take you over. If you need time at work go to the bathroom..and I know men don't cry but sulk..kick...scream whatever for about 5 minutes then pull it back in. Believe me it works.
2006-06-23 04:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by ILAUGHATU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't give me information the reason she left you. this is important to me to give a comment.
Take a breath....just don't blame your self on what happening, Try to forget her and find best solution on what happened to you at work and refresh your day with new positive things...ok?? good luck
2006-06-23 04:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just u n0e chill out wif ur fwens.They will hlp u tru dis times if derr reali ur frens
2006-06-23 04:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by pop_princess0520 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my boyfriend broke up wit me and we werent together for bout a month at first i was okay and tried gettin out meetin other people and then i dated someone and i couldnt take it i missed him you know i love him so much so i called him back and went to go see him and everything worked out i was happy.... i dont think you are goin to be able to get over her for a while maybe not at all... i mean you love her.... look maybe you can do wat i did go out try to get over her but maybe you wont be able to i dont know but it mite get it off your mind for a lil while give her space give her time wait a lil while and then try to call her... wat went wrong in the realationship... you need to give details.... im me or e-mail me....
2006-06-23 04:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by hesgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go someplace new, find different atmosphere, get busy with useful things, hang out, take ur leisure time, play n hang out! just find everything that makes u happy
2006-06-23 04:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋