Do people mean what they say when they are sleepy?

Question

I was on the phone talking to my ex-boyfriend one night and he told me some serious things...things like how he misses me and how he is so addicted to me. Keep in mind that my ex does have a girlfriend already. I asked him how could he feel this way when he has a girl already and he told me that its hard categorizing me. Then we started saying love nicknames such as baby, boo, sweetheart, etc. He says that he is in love with his girlfriend, but he can't seem to let me go because I was his 1st love and that he still into me. It was really late and we are really food friends now. It shocked me to know that he still has feelings for me. Do you think he was sincere or was he just talking because he was sleepy. Do people say what they mean when they are sleepy, or do they just talk? Thanks

Answer 1

For once on here I am going to be serious. Internet stories of jobs are hardly believable, but I am more than qualified to answer this question. I was in a chat for Psychological Disorders, when the messenger went kerplunk now I am here trying to get help on what is wrong, just having some fun with most of these, but I will be serious on this one.

First thing, was there jealousy in the relationship that you and him had? If he was a jealous type, he is probably insecure and did this to see if you still cared for him.

Second thing, depends on how long you were together. I still have feelings for women I dated 5 years ago. Surely doesn't mean that I want them.

Third thing, Since I know nothing about you, age, length of relationship, etc... I would recommend a full split between the two of you, no friends, phone or IM buddies, you know the old saying about letting something go, if it's meant to be then he will come back.

Fourth thing, busting out my Oprah stick, "You are letting him have his cake and eat it too, of course he is going to be nice to you"

Last thing, back to serious, when you break up with someone, never hold on, it could cause you to miss something or someone special that you didn't notice because you are still holding onto the past. Two things I have learned in life, life isn't stopping for you, so don't stop for someone else and there is a reason they are an ex. Hope this helps.

Answer 2

Sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. If he is your ex, and he has a girlfriend, why are you two talking on the phone using intimate language? Why don't you go out and find a nice guy who is dedicated to you and won't keep you dangling on string like this guy is doing.

Answer 3

No. people say whatever is easy. survival technique. you know: smile and nod, uhm huh, yes, sure.

he is just tryin' to keep the door open. you fell for his krap once, maybe if he's nice he can drop by sometime......... .

Answer 4

sure,I mean i think,I mean uhh, Im not sure it is 3 in the morning where Iam so I could say anything.

Answer 5

ı am bussy now
callme later ı have some guest comıng now
ı have a ımportant meetıng now
ı have to go

Answer 6

i could translate it with "assonnato"... Ex "i'm sleepy"= "sono assonnato"... We use lots "ho sonno" which potential the comparable ingredient! "Stanco" potential drained "Stacco" potential drained and it truly is dialect

Answer 7

I guess you were his 1st love

but time will heal itself'

Answer 8

Sounds like this two faced jerk could say it when he's dead too.