I always like asking questions since my childhood. Unfortunately, my bf is very short-tempered and is always so impatient. I can't help feeling frustrated. What can I do? I am sure patient men exist, right?
2006-06-22 20:54:37 · 21 answers · asked by Green2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not all men, nor women for that matter, are the same. You need to take time to listen more intensely to what your boyfriend's objections are. I once recorded myself with my husband on a day when we were alone. When I saw the 1 hour tape, I was surprised to see that I was doing all the talking and he was just saying "uhuh" or "ok". Somehow I felt the need to keep talking, when he was content to just be quiet and enjoy each others company. Try to listen more to him and find out what he's thinking about and interested in. There may be something bothering him that he finds difficult to share with you or that you have not noticed yet. Some men think their partners should be ale read their mood and know that something is wrong. And if you don't acknowledge they get moody and irritated. Something seems to be bugging your man, make an earnest effort to find out what. And sometimes, just sit quietly with him whilst enjoying each others company. Even patient men lose their tempers at times.
2006-06-22 21:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Lueji 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most men avoid answering women's question for various reasons.
1. Women tend to ask question either in a nagging ways or when thier men need to rest and would appreciate a quite time with the women.All they would want is hugs,kisses and massage.
2. Some things we women expect our men to say are best expressed by their action and attitude towards u as they believe in"why say it when u can show it"
3.Some guys would rather be silent than lie to make u happy.
I'll advice u to look for his sweetest moment to ask him questions but do it in a womanly manner.It worked for me,it will definately work for u.Be a woman for a change and let him feel he is in control, but deep within u,u are in charge of the game.
2006-06-22 21:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patient men do exist...of course! Look and listen to what he is saying...maybe he has a point (I know what us ladies can be like for chatterboxing!) Sometimes it is a question of timing also..maybe you want to talk at a time which is inconvenient for him...get yourself a good circle of friends and have plenty of girly time together...then when you are with your partner things will be more relaxed...if there conitnues to be a problem, talk to him about the way his responses make you feel
2006-06-22 21:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by amelia_madeline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a very pateint man, and I to ask tons of questions, My girlfriend is unpatient and hates questions. Guess were in the same boat, So the answer to your question is yes! Theres probly just more women than men
2006-06-22 20:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by bradford99336 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men actually get irate wen ne1 asks dem 2 many questions especially women as dey alwyas ask bout family, odr grlz, career n men most of d times dnt have butiful n nflowery anszwers to present , so out of frustration of not being able 2 gv a true answer they bhave as if they dnt like 2 answer , its a weekness of men dat dey like 2 hide thngs frm women , n women shud understand dat, plz dnt ask 2 many questions
2006-06-22 21:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truly if a man is interested in you, respects you, and or is in love with you I feel he we like answering wemons questions. That is one of the best ways to really get to know one another. If they don't seem to have time to answer your questions, then he more than likley does not have time for you.
2006-06-22 21:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by woman in love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. It often happens that I feel the woman is trying to "trap" me with questions, in order to start an argument on my answer. I hate that.
Otherwise, yes I like to answer questions, it makes me feel intelligent lol.
2006-06-22 21:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by Steaming emotions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels inadequate to the task of answering your questions...
But as a man, I love talking to women and answering their questions...
Communication is a wonderful thing...
2006-06-22 21:06:13 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what the question is like. as far as i can tell, some woman ask the most pointless and silly questions and they keep on going with them. it ends up like an interrogation with no obvious rationale - very annoying.
2006-06-22 21:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men avoid answering questions about things the are not clued up on but when it is a subject they are interested in then you cant shut the buggers up
2006-06-22 21:09:42 · answer #10 · answered by Bertie the mod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋