we both love each other me i love her and she love me as a friend and i know when she gets with another guy it going to kill me i know its hurting both of us if i let go. right now we arent talking i talk to her this moring and she said wait a week what should i do should i let go?
2006-06-22 20:50:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
hi there, this must be a huge dilemma you're facing. i have experienced this before, i'm 19 and probably you would think that i'm too young to comment or give you advice on this but this would be my sincere reply to your question. firstly, is this a mutual feeling? does she love you to the extent as you love her? you mentioned that she loves you as a friend, have you confronted her and made your feelings towards her known? it would be best if you know how she really feels then you can decide on what to do next. if she loves you, and you love her too, and both of you are happy with each other's company- why let go when you can grow and allow a beautiful relationship to blossom? but if she doesn't love you in a romantic way, it is definitely advisable that you let go before it's too late. allow yourself to meet new people and give your chance and someone out there a chance too. it will take more than a short period of time to get over her and resume to the "just friends" status but it will do you good. if she's unsure, give her time to think about it. i hope what i said made sense, there's too much to speak on this. i hope that all will go well and you're able to come up with a solution. do not let this issue put you down, alrite? there are many other beautiful individuals out there waiting to be discovered. and i'm sure that she is also a special person.
2006-06-22 21:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by lemonade_crave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you already know that the best thing for you is to let her go. you are sad because that's not what you want & recognize that it is what's best for you, both at once. you are already mourning the end of this relationship. better this, than the hell of being in the wrong, artificial relationship. if you don't know this already, it is something that is best learned early in life.
giving away our heart is something that continues to feel good only if its to the right person. she will be worth the wait. avoid the temptation to get into just any relationship. everyone is special if you look hard enough, so keep looking. there are more people out there who will appreciate you as well, if not better. they're out there for you. so you have to put yourself out there. only in mutual sharing will anything truly be real. be patient. get on with being your best self & along that path, you will find those you belong with.
2006-06-22 21:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Silvaworks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. It might hurt and hard to release. But that's the reality that she has crushed to another man. If you believe in true love she will never ever gone a far from you. Don't expect that you can forge easily..It's trully hard...however just let flow...because you have known the reason why she wanted that way...There're lot of stars at sky, Jack!!! Don't worry you will be fine..its circle of life..you love someone, means you ready to lose her or him one day. Thats all
2006-06-22 21:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by CenCool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves you as a friend, but you love her romantically, then you should let her go and be nothing more than a friend to her. The feeling of hurt will eventually go away.
2006-06-22 22:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely
2006-06-22 20:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to Sting,
"If you love somebody, set them free"
She's bad for you, let her go.
2006-06-22 20:52:19 · answer #6 · answered by TrickMeNicely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋