I have known this guy for almost 3 years now and everytime I am around him I feel like a whole new person. He makes me feel happy.
But the only problem is that he is married and has a boy. He has shown affection to me by hugging me everytime we meet, making conversation with me, and just giving me the attention. All my friends and family think it is wrong to like or to even love someone like that. But if I am truly in love how do I know without making a fool of myself in front of him. How do I know I really am in love with him?
2006-06-22 20:26:59 · 10 answers · asked by citygirl18 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well the first thing is you don't want to break up his marriage. You need to lay low and back off. And let him do the work. then that the start. I don't think that your in love with him because when your in love with someone you can feel it in your soul and you would know it. I didn't realize you could love that much until 9 months ago. and I let him do the work to get me. but you should never break up a family because he will just used as a rebound and then when he gets tired of you will find someone elsa. so back off and find someone who is single and their a lot of guys out there to show you what you want and need. You must first relized what you want and let guys know what you want and don't take anything less then what your heart wants. would you rather have someone there all the time to give you hugs and commuicate with you. Then just when ever he can do it. Stop and think of what you want. I don't think you need this guy. You will find someone your looking in the wrong place.
2006-06-22 20:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by Marthia A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this kind of situation are the one worst things. What u can do is tell him what u sincerely feel, talk about it with that man just only that way you will get the shame apart. Be nice and sincere. Nothing in life is easy... or sumthin like that...
2006-06-22 20:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by anibal_carthago 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask total strangers or even yourself that question - then " Your'e Not in Love." Your'e just getting the attention you mentioned that you so badly need at anyone's exspense.
2006-06-22 20:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by MoMoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every person who falls in love is a fool to ruin his/her life for so called LOVE.I too was a big fool
2006-06-22 20:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a crush...they call it a crush for a reason. Its not love, just infatuation. Find a distraction, like another guy!
2006-06-22 20:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by JLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he still with his wife?If not,thats cool,go ahead.Tell him that u love him,and ask him out,just do what u wanna do,what will make u happy,ok???Good luck
2006-06-22 20:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by {sicko} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course your in love with him! I dont see anything wrong about it. as long as the guy is divorced or separated. that's ok.
2006-06-22 20:31:21 · answer #7 · answered by shaznay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and "Love/Lust" him but do not break up his marriage just so you can find out 'for sure' if he love's you.
2006-06-22 20:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a fool if you fall for his game
2006-06-22 20:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by dahorndogd013 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love itself is a foolish thing.
2006-06-22 20:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋