I think you know what I am asking here...Is there such a thing as "Love" or is it just a word folks use to justify their actions as regards the objects of their lust and attention? And if this "Love" exists, why does it not seem to exist for folks like me, who are dirt poor, mediocre-looking, generally at or near the bottom of the social food chain, and are looked upon by the Cutthroat Classes (your filthy rich, your evangelicals, your managers, your politicians, your mass-media types) as utterly worthless and disposable? Where is this "Love" for people like me?
2006-06-22 20:00:29 · 20 answers · asked by Bradley P 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Emphatically yes! True love does exist; love for oneself, love for family members, love for god (for the believers), love for friends, love for mother nature, love for all other living creatures and of course, that deep, satisfying, fulfilling love (not lust) for the one special someone.
True love does not discriminate, hun, and should not be confused with superficial love based on social standing, wealth or even looks. It cannot tell between rich or poor, young or old, black or white and ordinary or extraordinary (or eccentric).
Too true is the saying that you will find love in the unlikeliest of places and when you least expect it. Just be yourself, be sincere and one fine day you may just bump into her. I firmly believe there is someone for everyone, it is just a matter of timing. Sooner or later, I say :) No, I am not living in a fairy tale world, just one of those people who believe the glass is half full.
I will be rooting for you and for all the others like you :)
2006-06-25 18:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by reformed_witch 4 · 9⤊ 0⤋
I think Love is just a word to define the attraction between two people at first. Eventually every relationship will go a little sour. You WILL have fights and you WILL disagree. I think people just stay together because they are attached and being with someone for a long time you dont see how they are on the outside but you've been around them so much you cant separate. The feelings you have for this person turn into a family type of love. I think love is for everybody though. Every one has Someone out there for them regardless of Financial status or looks.
2006-06-23 03:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by texastreasure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the reason why we exist. Love is not judging, love is patient. Love is not a matter of money or the way you look, love comes from the heart. A person and their soul is worth more than all of the gold and money put together -- and then some. Lust is selfish and destructive and burns out in time, love remains eternal. Love is real and is the reason why life is beautiful. We must open our hearts and give love and our best reward comes in the giving of ourselves. One day all of the walls we set up, like judgeing others for their looks or money or status, will vanish and we will become one family. God Bless you and have faith in love, it is the greatest power in the universe. Love is like a light, a candle in the darkness, the light drives the darkness away and so does love as it drives away all hate and the walls we set up fall away.
2006-06-23 03:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is an illusion. People throw that expression around because everyone in society proclaims to have love and people desperately want to find love and fit in with the rest of society. it is something that is taught, but not to be confused with genuine affection that is natural to human nature. People experience emotions with people for long periods of time and assume that since the relationship still exists that love must be the binding factor.
2006-06-23 03:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sue S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Yaar,
Same question was in my mind... but you know... i will tell you wha i think about this all.... this what makes you pretty is not you beauty or if ur rich.. this is your soul... all other things are just for sometimes and going away with time,,,, your soul is still same.... boddy its just clothes for her....it is no matter if person is rich or very handsome....The biggest matter is how is he.... if there is love... sometimes i think by observations... no there is no time for love.. everyone is so hurry ....and almost forgot about the most important thing in this World....the even has no time for them kids or wifes etc... if about me.. i dont want any rich guy.. but person who will be happy tht i am with Him and will love me as I am.... for who i am and not who he wants to make me....I think tht u getting tht yaar, na???... Ok.... i dont want to make u bore from the morning,,,,, so head up and u will find tht love in right time..... be positive and dont lose hope..... faith be with you !
2006-06-23 03:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by naina_k_s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking and it will find you when you least expect it...that's what happened to me. I used to think the same thing...I didn't have a good job, I had a beat up car and a bunch of druggie friends...I was always looking for that special someone and just couldn't find her; I gave up on it and that's about the time she walked into my life...Now I make good money, have two beautiful children, a nice car, nice clothes, a totally pimped condo and the list goes on. She just gave me the motivation I needed to get myself out of that train of thought that I had been in for years.
2006-06-23 03:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by Boom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, love does exist and there is someone for everyone. In true love, if a woman loves you enough, she won't care that you are poor. She won't care about anything but you.
I felt the same way you do, but be patient, I"m glad I was.
The best of luck to you,
Hope
2006-06-23 03:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE COURAGE ! THERE IS HOPE.
Try to REINVENT yourself by not focusing so much on "Where is this love" kind of thing. Build your confidence by exercising, learn some skills, improve your communication skills, try to always help others who come across your life. THERE IS LOVE IN EVERY PERSON. Try giving it to others as much as you can then love will cover you. You don't have to go looking for it.
AVOID comparing yourself with others for you will become vain or bitter. Count your blessings everyday. Email me. (edrod777@yahoo.com)
ALL THE BEST.
2006-06-23 03:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like the "Cut-throat Classes" have conditioned you to look down on yourself. Get some self-confidence and move up in the world. I'm poor as hell too but I don't throw dirt on myself at all.
When life throws potatoes at you, make mashed potatoes by throwing it back at life's head.
2006-06-23 03:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are clean, respectable, and have a good additude you will find someone. Ive seen alot of really handsom men with almost homely wives and also the same with beautiful girls with down right ugly men. So just keep your chin up
2006-06-23 03:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by g-day mate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋