I tried for a year with my partner. We are affectionable for each other but I have never really felt the 'click', what can I do?
2006-06-22 19:31:46 · 18 answers · asked by Green2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're feeling depressed right now.
He's probably done something to upset you and your'e bottling it all up and brooding occasionally on all the things you SHOULD have said or done.This makes you unforgiving/bitter and kills all the love you once had for this person.
lt will pass...all feelings do.
Please ,let me give a little advice?Even if you don't marry this person,the lessons you are learning now are lessons for LIFE.You will mature and be a better person for all this.
So cheer up,chin up,best foot forward.Life must go on!
2006-06-23 02:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by Emma Woodhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a type of person who invents nice words like affectionable - you are able to find a partner who whom you will feel a connection! (I'm not mocking, the word doesn't exist, but it sounds nice) It may not happen this year, maybe not even next year, but you know it's worth waiting. Have you forgotten how much fun you can have as a single person - why do you need your partner?
2006-06-22 19:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Palmer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you want from a relationship...it sounds as if you are good friends, but I would suggest for it to be fulfilling longer term for both of you then it has to be more than this...talk to your partner, it may be that he feels the same also and you may agree that you are better as friends rather than anything else, or it may be that your discussions and honesty about how you feel may be the kick start your relationship needs to become one that 'clicks'...wish you all the best!
2006-06-22 21:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by amelia_madeline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you - I've been in a similar situation. Never really fallen in love with him, but let him grew on me, never really feeling the real connection. And neither did he, I'd have felt it. Now, 2 years down the line, I'm pregnant with his child and we're both miserable really. I broke up with him a month ago, it was very ugly, so much built-up resentment and unspoken feelings - if you feel the connection, than you discuss issues and bad feelings without fear once they arise, otherwise it bottles up and you have a disaster. Leave while you can still remain friends.
2006-06-22 19:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new partner. Are you staying because you don't want to be alone? Sounds like your relationship is more of a friendly one than romantic.
2006-06-22 21:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by Vivreici 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you have to move on. Why cheat your partner out of a loving relationship.
2006-06-22 19:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to settel.
Leave her. It would benefit the both of you.
Passion is something real! Find it in someone elce. If you havent felt it with her by now then its not going to happen.
2006-06-22 19:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by kellbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing , you are not in to it yet , its some thing else you look for .You gave it a year but it didnt work so now what keep trying or move on .the choice is yours.....
2006-06-22 19:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by trekmate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Life is too short to not have the right chemistry.
2006-06-22 20:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is sometimes like square dancing.....every now and then you have to change partners..... and it sounds like you are much overdue!
2006-06-22 19:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by old dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋