I think alot of ppl who read my questions know anbout my whole liking my best friend situation...but I am getting in deeper and deeper...he makes me melt everytime he says my name...and now tomorrow we are going to the movies together...but he has a gf....I am sooo confuzzled! I can't hold these feelings inside anymore...what should I do...?
2006-06-22 19:02:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just to let you know...I am going to the movies with him and some other ppl...and we are friends, its notjhing we haven't done!
2006-06-22 19:10:51 · update #1
his gf and him are on the rocks...he is afraid to break up with her!
2006-06-22 19:18:25 · update #2
Hi there,
If u asking me, for me anything is fair in love and war.
Fight till the end.You must be having something better than her, which he may like. But first of all be clear what you have got. If it is only a crush which you are experiencing then just let it be where it is, in your heart. Slowly with time it would vanish in air. But If it is love then you can not hide it there for longer. Go with him, make him comfortable, talk to him, be the best you can, dress up the best you can, and go hunting................
Patience is another thing you got to learn in love. You may have to fight too long for him, since you have to win him back from someone. But real love, patience, determination, positive thoughts and well.......... all the best wishes of we ppl here is surely gonna work out for you.
All the best...................
vikram_sbhatt@yahoo.co.in
2006-06-22 19:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by boom9849 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is your best friend yar and if he loves someone else and is happy with her don't you think that as a good friend you should be happy for him!? But then, love is a strong and wonderful emotion and one little side effect that can sometime evolve from it is that it can make you selfish to the core and possessive and what not! But I tell you my friend...that you are getting deeper and deeper into it means that you have already crossed the thin line between friendship and love and there is no going back again. So why suffer....take him somewhere which is the most romatic of places and tell him your feelings for him but GIVE PARAMOUNT IMPORTANCE TO HIS FEELINGS IN THIS SITUATION! If he is happy and in love with his ''Girl friend'' speaking about it will help you to understand his love for her and respect that and accept it and you will still have your friendship with him intact! And who knows may be it;s not all rosy between them and may you are the ones made for each other! BUT PLEASE..PLEASE..DONT BECOME A PSYCHO IF IT DOESNT GO IN YOUR FAVOUR! FOR SURE HE IS AN ANGEL FOR YOU,....BUT THERE ARE MILLIONS OF OTHR ANGELS ON THIS EARTH WHO CAN GIVE YOU THE SAME EMOTIONS...YOU WILL FIND THEM AT THE RIGHT TIME IN YOUR LIFE! Good luck my friend!
2006-06-23 02:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by aleandan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its fantasy honey especially if he has a girlfriend. i would not go or do this to her or yourself. why sell yourself short. cant you do better? i believe you can. how would you like this if the picture was the other way around,meaning DONE TO YOU. RIGHT IS RIGHT AND WRONG IS EXACTLY THAT.
2006-06-23 02:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey jus chill it depends on u n dont sink in words der is lot more in life so take care hav fun
2006-06-23 02:07:29 · answer #4 · answered by maddy316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN U GET HIM IN THE MOVIES SLOWLY SLIDE YOUR HAND ONTO HIS MEMBER AND TELL HIM EXACTLY WHAT U WANT TO TELL HIM AND IF HE RESPONDS IN THE WRONG WAY THEN SQUEEZE THE S H I T OUT OF HIM.
2006-06-23 02:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by oaklandkc1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok since hes ur best friend's bf i would wait until they break -up so u dont Ruin ur friendship.
2006-06-23 02:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by † 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to let him know u love him or like him, kiss him do something, if he is not corresponding your feelings, so try to forget about him, good luck
2006-06-23 02:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by rivers_of_life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go with him to the moves. He has a girlfriend...
2006-06-23 02:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. You don't want to look like an asshole.
2006-06-23 02:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by pandoravamp666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋