My boyfriend of 2 1/2 yrs. of 34yrs. of age works through an agency as a truck driver . He has no ambition to work. He is always very tired and has headaches all the time but he does like to jog and in ok shape. He always uses me as an excuse that I keep him up late at night. We do not live together. What do you think I should do in this relationship. I do have a 7yr. old daughter. I on the other hand do work 5 days a week and make pretty good money....
2006-06-22 18:57:08 · 14 answers · asked by Edie Bear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He may be an idiot, but he sounds more lazy than anything else. If you can get to sleep and get up on time, why can't he? If he can't get to bed at night it's his own damn fault.
Don't let him blame you for his shortcomings, he's only using you as a scapegoat. He needs to place the blame where it belongs and get himself together if he wants to be a part of your family. You deserve someone who will work to keep your family happy and healthy. Be sure you tell him that!
2006-06-22 19:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by Chryss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
On the basis of your description of your bf I am a little confused. The contrast of 'tired and headaches' and ' jog to keep in shape' seems to be a contradiction in his life.
Do you love him, do you have a good relationship with him?
At best your values regarding work differ a lot and may cause conflict.
A deep relationship, and a good marriage, need lots of values in common as well as trust and openess.
I think from your question that you have some doubts..
regards
Peter
2006-06-22 22:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by Peter H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could you call your mothers and fathers idiots? could you call your infants idiots? Why is it okay to call your boyfriend an fool - whether it truly is basically in a playful way? i think of it truly is the main stupid ingredient all of us can do - under the canopy of being "playful" - is to call one yet another a attractiveness this is demeaning and degrading to the only receiving that remark. Its downplays that individual's means to reason and additionally that individual's intelligence. the two you're asserting it to be sneaky and actually propose it, or you're asserting it to make relaxing of persons who're much less clever than you and reinforcing that act and behaviour by making use of labeling one yet another this by making use of what you do in a mocking jest and humorous tale. i do no longer approve of it, and by making use of your asking this question - i think of your boyfriend did no longer the two. it truly is disrespectful, and it makes the different "serious" observe, no longer serious - and the excuse could then be, "it truly is basically to be playful / it truly is in user-friendly terms for relaxing." How unfair could that be? no longer each and every thing is relaxing and video games.
2016-10-31 08:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt sound like he would make a good role model for your daughter. You wouldnt want her to live with a man like that.. then grow up and marry a man like that.. so why would you? Give your daughter a step dad she can be proud of.
2006-06-22 19:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by spurdom28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't he take his CDL and get a job driving over the road. He can still sit on his a$$ all day but will make a lot more money doing it!
2006-06-22 19:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by tied2tots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like your boyfriend has a health problem you should tell him to go get some tests done being tired and having headaches could be something serious
2006-06-22 19:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by bellitarose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he is not freeloading on you, and you enjoy his company why not continue ?. He is obviously not able or does not want to handle responsibility, therefore I would not take the relationship any further than friendship.
2006-06-22 19:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOESN'T SOUND TO ME LIKE YOU NEED THE HEADACHE OR HEARTACHE OF THIS LOSER. IF HE CAN'T WORK AND IMPROVE HIS LIFE AND YOURS TOO, THEN WHAT GOOD IS HE? DON'T TELL US HE IS A GREAT LAY, BECAUSE THAT IS JUST A COP OUT. PLENTY OF OTHERS THAT WOULD BE JUST AS GOOD OR EVEN BETTER.
2006-06-22 19:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by BOOMBOOMBILLY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl move on!!! Find yourself a real man not a bump on a log.
2006-06-22 19:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him girl your a hard worker and deserve a hard worker. what can he do for you? and how long will it be before his a$$ is living off you? be smart now and nip it in the butt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
2006-06-22 19:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by loveableladee1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋