What is the easiest way to dump a guy w/out hurting his feelings so bad? I know from the start that his a married man. I love him & he always say that he loves me. What can I do?
2006-06-22 18:48:51 · 32 answers · asked by b_diaz13 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What do you think will you benefit from the situation you are into right now? You know that you are the loser in this kind of game. What are you waiting for??? To be pregnant and be a single mom??? Common! You can be much better than that! Tell the man honestly. There is no way to tell the truth than being honest to yourself. Be frank with the man. Tell him, i know this relationship wont work for long. I need a life of my own. A life where i can freely tell the whole world that i am your girl. I want my kids to know that their father and mother are married legally. If you are the wife of your bf, what would you feel if you knew your husband is having an affair with someone else? If that happens to you, what would you feel? Let that be your thinking, and i know it will not be that hard to tell your boyfriend you want to be free.
2006-06-22 18:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sophia Beatrice 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
(1 ) Find a new boyfriend and ask him to brake ! the news . (2) Become his wife friend ! And tell him , I like her more , bye (3)Tell him you never loved him , you just wanted a man that had to go home ! And now you want him to stay home ! (4) Okay your not trying to hurt his feels Why ? He didn't respect his wife or you ? Just say sorry I love you really , how can you ask to break up and then worry about him or say we love each other ? Married cheating men should be treated as seconds from a single lady .Not the other way around .Take until he can't or stops then move on .Maybe the wife will ! Some wives wish their cheating husbands would fall in love with someone else and leave , of course not with the car , houses , bank account , not a dime .Then the girlfriends could love his poor broken behind !
2006-06-22 19:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by Fairy Tale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's married, he told you the deal and now you want out. Dump him. You owe him nothing. You owe his wife a major apology though for disrespecting her.
I would suggest you make yourself disappear. You are making a fool out of yourself. Real love is not about sex with a married man. But you know this. You just thought you could handle it. Funny thing, emotions, eh?
Move on. You won't gain much sympathy here.
2006-06-22 18:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that situation, nothing good ever comes from dating a married person, you are not only ruining your life but his wifes and kids if there are any and he is reaping all the rewards, two women, more sex and he isnt going to leave his wife anyways. Tell him its overs and go find a single guy.
You just learned a life lesson and so far no one is hurt
2006-06-22 18:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by beachbumha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, u have all the reason to dump him. the truth is he does not love u, he is just playing with u. they will never leave their wife and still they want girl friends to go around.he is just not into u, be brave to say no.live your own life and i am sure u will get a great guy. trust me and forget all this married guys. world is big.
2006-06-22 19:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by maggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably a nice girl. Just tell him it's over and to move on. Just tell him you have found someone else that is not married. Don't put it off any longer then you have to. Unless you like seeing married men because there are no strings attached. Good Luck...
2006-06-22 18:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dump his ***, what are you doing with a married man anyways, I am sure that there are lots of guys out there that are single that are llooking for someone like you, all this bastard was doing was using you, and you know that
2006-06-22 18:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by dahorndogd013 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me.
You're NOT going to hurt his feelings too bad. He'll cry crocodile tears and tell you how wonderful you are, but he'll get over it. Fast.
He's used to playing different roles and wearing different masks. So tell him you'll always have a place in your heart for him but must move on --and don't let him snow you with sentiment and change your mind for you.
You're doing the right thing for yourself --and-- it is hard.
2006-06-22 18:59:20 · answer #8 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly loved you, he would be married to you. No matter what he says, he is just using you for sex and would dump you in a minute if he tires of you.
2006-06-22 18:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by Seikilos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a hidden video recording when he kiss u and hug u and send it to the wife, u can also take pics or record the voice, etc
but i advice u to forget about him, anyway he will stay with his wife and even if u hurt him u will never have him, better try hard to forget about him, there s many good men out there,
2006-06-22 18:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by rivers_of_life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋