I want to get pregnant and my spouse takes too long to reach orgasm. When we do have sex, I usually get too tired to go on and I have to quit before he ever comes. What can we do to solve the problem? I really do want to have more children.
2006-06-22 18:45:05 · 5 answers · asked by kitten 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Well first, ask your doctor. There may be something amok with the guy's reproductive system, that needs to be solved. Also, if you're trying every day, he's running on empty, so to speak. Try every other day.
Circumcision can cause that problem, too, though. It turns the glans from an internal organ to an external one. It removes nearly a million nerve endings, several feet of blood vessel, and 15 square inches of skin (that's the size of an index card). It removes glands that produce antivirals, which are there to protect a woman from cervical cancer. It's equal to removing the clitoris in females, and you can probably imagine how hard it'd be if you didn't have one. Removing the foreskin also causes the glans to thicken, develop callouses, and turn less red/purple, as it tries to protect itself from chafing and stuff. Guys can have a lot of problems as a result, from premature orgasm, to impotence, to having difficulty with orgasm at all. It can be a problem for the guy's whole life, or just crop up as he ages, and the nerves naturally become less sensitive.
I won't post the links because they have explicit, non-pornographic images involved, and I'm not sure that's allowed. But if that sounds like what's going on, and if the doctor can't find anything wrong, then search online for products called Senslip or Manhood, to help fix the symptoms.
2006-06-22 19:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by Gen 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is your man a heavy user of alcohol or a heavy smoker? Smoking constricts the blood vessels in the penis and elsewhere. It also sounds like your husband's mind is elsewhere. If both partners are not present in the moment, good sex isn't possible. If he has an enlarged prostate, this can delay orgasm. Hopefully, he's been faithful to you. If he's getting sex elsewhere, he won't be a peak performer at home. Best wishes!
2006-06-22 20:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me, you get tired before he comes? You lucky thing you!! Damn, I wish I had that problem.
Maybe it's his prostate. Maybe he doesn't want anymore kids, and in his head he is trying to prevent them.
Try "catching" a sample when he does come, and placing it where it will do the most good manually.
2006-06-22 18:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn u lucky lol, try having sex every 12 hrs and make him horny before you do it, my man nutts quick
2006-06-23 02:25:06 · answer #4 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
boredom baby...boredom
2006-06-23 00:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by Bearable 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋