Is anyone else sick of gay men?

Question

There either to cute or dog ugly, to bitchy or to sluty or to self-centered or to depressed, I wish I could just find someone in the middle!

Answer 1

Your question suggested that you might hate gay people. But your details say the exact opposite. I can't help but COMPLETELY agree with you. I know 100+ gay men. Hell, I might be one myself... once I realize it, lol. But I, myself, am too goddamn sick of them already.

There are the cute ones (who are usually RETARDED!)- honestly, no offense to mentally-retarded people...

There are the ones that are too "dog ugly" (hehe, I like that term...) and they're usually incredibly slutty. They'd put out with a fire hydrant, too... provided it (the hydrant) accepts their offers for sex.

There are also the slutty and self-centered ones. What can I say? Put a mirror in front of them and THEY'D HUMP IT! They're in love with themselves... but in lust (usually temporary... like 2 days) with their 'partners' (usu. strangers).

Too depressed? It's hard to find gay people who are too depressed but there are quite a few. Many don't show it. A few do. I've met them all; I've known them personally. I don't get sick of them much, because they don't talk about their relationships with others with me. They're depressed because of family, or something of the sort. But I've known a few that cry on my ever-so-welcoming shoulder of their flames "not liking them anymore." Honestly, give me a damn break (right down the middle, perhaps...). I can't stand that endless aggravation of promiscuity and... and... shallowness! Ok, I'm done ranting.

There are plenty of people in the middle. Hopefully... Maybe... Please...? Goodness, this is bleak, indeed. I'm not going to be a condescending asswipe and wish you "good luck"- because you don't need luck to find someone in the middle. You need genuine-ness. Hope you find someone, though... I honestly do. Email me if you want to rant or complain. I'm fairly sociopathic and I love conversing with total strangers. :-D

Oh, the mirth! :-p

Answer 2

I saw a lot of stuff going on the motorways (Germany) that would put some of them in a very dangerous bracket just because of where they pick up other men, but the fact most people are making that the typical gay male looks after himself more than the heterosexual is probably right and so would counter that 1 % of the gay male community that risk dirty sex and dogging. It could also be that a gay man is more aids conscious and therefore takes more precautions during sex, whereas the hetro male, might think it will never happen to him ? You stated that u asked the question in good faith, and find it a shame that so many feel they have to put you down for your question. Hope someone with a background in insurance could clear this one up for u,,

Answer 3

The reason you can't find a normal gay person is because there are no normal gay people!! Being gay is not normal, so there is no way a gay person could be...you can't surround yourself with sick, confused people and then wish they would be normal, it isn't possible. It sounds to me like you are getting tired of your experimenting and are ready to give up the sick gay lifestyle. Don't let the liberals of this country brain wash you into thinking that you are gay and that is it. It is a choice, you were not born gay and it sounds like you are getting tired of living that way. If you ever want to have a normal life you should give it up as fast a possible and pray to God that you can live a normal life again.

Answer 4

Josh,

You have to bend like a reed in the wind in relationships -- whether you are gay or straight. Too cute? That alone says that you are just not willing to find anyone acceptable. There is no such thing as too cute.

Think it through, let the bitterness go and be willing to the half-mile.

Kind thoughts,

Reyn
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Answer 5

I'm sick of the way the media portrays these ppl as cool be gay and you can be cool is pretty much what there saying

we have to open our eyes to a great big surprise that's on the rise which is.....

subversive symbols , words, pics, and many other things in the media

he media is very subversive be careful !

Answer 6

Hey I know what you're saying, wait it out you'll find someone. I did, but it did make me wonder if I would ever find someone "real". No offence to pretty, self-centred boys I know they're real but it doesn't really suit my personality but damn they are fun to head out to the pub or club with!

I think you need to find someone who has a creative outlet, like playing an instrument, paints or something of the like, I think helps to ground people.

Either way I wish you the best of luck on your search!

Answer 7

You won't find anything if you look.Try not judging everyone either.People are more then what they look like.People think I am some kind of airhead because I am attractive to most people.But I am, in fact, often far more intelligent then they are.Open yourself up to the world and let in the possibilities.

Answer 8

I know you're meaning it from a different angle, but my friend just told me today that he's gay. All I want to do is hug him & let him know it's ok. My heart is so heavy for his pain.
No; I'm not sick of gay men.
(Sorry for my emotional response. I really value his friendship)

Answer 9

That's none of your business. I'm sick of looking at that ugly avatar hat, though.

Answer 10

I think you are way too bitter, maybe that's why you can't find anyone in the middle... Therapy would help you hun...