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If you want people to recognize you, and guys to get your attention, and people to want to sit with you, how is it done? How do you have to take care of yourslef? Act? Dress? Walk? Talk? Answer in class? Flirt? Hang with friends? Personal essentials? How does it work, if you want to be known as a total hottie and popular? How do you need to look and what do you need to do?

And what if you let's say...had a bad reputation for some things for the past year or so? September is a brand new school year, and how do you make a brilliant comeback?

ANSWER PLZ!!!!!

Much Love....<3

2006-06-22 17:41:24 · 18 answers · asked by VivaBananas 3 in Beauty & Style Other - Beauty & Style

18 answers

1.CONFORM YOURSELF TO EVERY ONES IDEAS. BUT DON'T FORGET WHAT YOU LIKE N DON'T LIKE. JUST KEEP IT IN DON'T TELL OTHERS.

2. ACT LIKE YOU DON'T CARE. BUT KNOW WHEN TO !

3. BE NICE TO EVERY ONES

4.GET EVERYONE ATTENTION BY DRESSING UP N THINGS YOU DON'T NORMALLY PUT ON !! THAT'S A BIG ONE TO POINT DOWN.

5. MAKE LOTS OF FRIENDS, AL KINDS

6.BE YOURSELF


MSG ME FOR MORE I HAVE TO GO FOR NOW BYE SILLY PPL

REVERS ENGINEERING IS THE FUTER OF THE POOR..

2006-06-22 18:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by JOSE F 1 · 4 1

Girl. Don't worry about what those other lames think about you. The only way you can get people to notice you, is to be yourself. That's your way of being your own bad *** or a potential bad ***. You dont have to talk a certain, or act a certain way, or do this and that. But if you want to do that, come up with your "own," way of talking, or acting. Be yourself at all times, and people will give you mad respect and props on that, and guys will like you for "YOU," not for becky, sue, ann, and jane, and not for the clique you hang in. Find your own fashion style, and set trends, do something that's totally different. And never let anyone know your secrets, because some of the people you think that are your bestfriends, aren't really your bestfriends, so keep an close eye on things, and be a boss. Listen to Kelis's song "Bossy." And learn from that song, that's how I learned, I mean gosh, I've already been a boss, since diaper days lol. But for real though girl, stay fresh, stay fly, stay you unique, most of all, stay yourself.

2006-06-22 17:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by Danyizzle 4 · 0 0

mm sorry but you can't become skinny in a day. unless your millions of dollars rich and can have a squad fly in and give you liposuction, do skin procedures, and face changes (don't do that). the only thing you can do in a day is smiling. the most beautiful kind of girls are smiling ones. so smile a lot! If you would be willing to, set a year or 6 month plan. start a work out and healthy diet, do skin remedies (like soaking milk and using bb cream), and learn to lightly apply makeup if it makes you feel better. get new clothes that you like. to be popular be nice to others. and be yourself. anyone can spot a fake over a mile away, and it would be hard to be someone else, right?

2016-03-27 01:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Honestly? Be confident in who you are, be real. Don't just try to be a people pleaser. Be sincere with everyone and kind to everyone. Stand up for what is right. Speak out against what you see as wrong. Don't try to be like those who are fake or who talk about other people. They are not your friends and will not be there for you when you need them. "Popularity" is not really what you want, respect is what you should strive for. You can't demand respect, of course, it must be earned.

Boys: Boys are a huge distraction while you are in school. Develop yourself, educate yourself, become an independent woman who is self-confident and happy. Then, and only then, will you attract the kind of man (during or after college) that you really will want to open your heart to. Easier said than done, I know.

Of course, real beauty comes from the inside. You should take care of yourself on the outside, but don't make that the most important thing in your life. Take care of yourself on the inside and, MORE IMPORTANTLY, take care of other people's feelings. You might not always feel appreciated and might not be "popular" with the people you think you want to be popular with right now.

Be respectful to your teachers because their opinion of you matters. You never know when you might need a letter of recommendation to something you're really trying for (like college, or cheerleading, etc).

2006-06-22 18:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by rocknrollfawn 2 · 0 0

True friends don't care if you are popular, how you dress, act, or what you do in school. True friends stick with you no matter what
you did in the past. If you can't seem to escape the past then I suggest trying to transfer to another school and getting a fresh start. If you can't do that then go to school in september and try to just be you and not repeat the things you said or did in the past. The best advice I can really give you is: DON'T DO ANYTHING YOU WILL REGRET LATER, IT IS ALWAYS BEST TO WAIT UNTILL MARRIAGE. That is not the way to get boys to like you.

2006-06-22 17:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by Skeeter 2 · 0 0

First of all you need confidence in yourself and not arrogance. Be comfortable in your own skin. Be open and warm to people. Take good care of your skin and hair and your teeth. Get the right skin products for you. Relax and be natural, never ever try to be someone or something you just aren't up to keeping 24/7, you will trip up eventually. Learn body language. Learn how to flirt as this is individual style and preference as to what works for you. Try subtle flirting so you don't come off as loose, easy and willing. Try out different looks with makeup and your hair and see what works for you.

2006-06-22 17:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Oh, my God girl! You sound just like me my freshman and softmore year of high school. I used to have all the same questions. But believe me, having so much popularity only deters you from what you really need to focus on, and it brings too much drama into your life. At first I grappled for popularity like you did. I tried everything to fit: except being myself. I had 20 different groups of friends. You know how many friends I had when I graduated; REAL friends...? Two. And we all just hung out in the library cuz we realized grades and college were important, not false friends that talk behind your back and bring you distress. And if you don't believe me, just remember my words: if they aren't there to help you, they're there to hurt you...Believe this, child. And I'm 18....yeah...

2006-06-22 17:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by all_this_yella 2 · 0 1

Well i have been popular sine 2nd grade but u dont become that way i am way way different from all the gurls that i hang wit and we are all popular but i am the weird out spoken dresses funny one. and i dont care that is y i am popular becuz i dont try to act like somebody im not.
but we need to know how u look now to tell u how to dress and watever k

add me if you need more help< I_LV_DK

2006-06-22 17:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by britt 2 · 0 0

Be born into a rich family. That's about the only thing that seems to work for the folks around where I live.

2006-06-22 17:47:27 · answer #9 · answered by bj 2 · 0 0

the easiest way become popular is to get known. Do this by joining as many clubs and sports as you get. Be nice to everyone. Be funny but dont go overboard.

2006-06-22 17:45:35 · answer #10 · answered by JIMMY j 5 · 0 0

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