Little brother is 15?

Question

and plans on having sex this summer? Talk to him or no?

he has a girlfriend and this is all planned out.....

Answer 1

Tell him to save it for his wife.

Answer 2

Obviously, you're a protective older sister, and I'm sure you're worried about him. The truth is that you talking to him could be either very awkward and won't go well or kind of good. If you have a really close relationship, I'd say to talk to him - but don't try to influence his decision. That might drive you apart. What you should do is give him some pointers from the girl's perspective - nothing too graphic, just some overall tips that a guy his age wouldn't know. Then, put a few condoms in his room after you talk to him. However, if you aren't close (or don't talk about personal things like this), leave this alone, but leave some condoms anyway, just to be safe. Tread carefully, no matter what, and if he doesn't want to have this talk, don't pressure him into anything. Also, if you want to talk to him because you've had bad sexual experiences, remember that this isn't about you, it's about him and it's his life - let him live it his way.

Answer 3

LOL!! Doesn't matter, if you tell him no, he is going to try and do it anyways. But remember, the only way he is going to have sex is if he finds another willing and able person, otherwise he is going to be on his own like most 15 yr old boys are. You wont have a wholelot to worry about, or at least you shouldn't. Just keep an eye out for him dating a 10 yr old or some creepy old lady. Try to keep him from doing that =P

Answer 4

I say definitely talk to him. Make sure he knows the consequences of what he will be doing. I dated a guy for a while who only had sex to get his "friends" off his back about it. Find out why he has decided to do this? Then it may be easier to talk him into waiting a while or giving him better advice.

Answer 5

Talk to him. Gosh, sex at 15. If you want to be a good brother, stop him otherwise he'll think he can "do it" all the time w/ out any consequences.

Answer 6

Definitely!! No matter what others say, its not a good idea to do something just because its popular. Talk about the risks, the purpose, and the repercussions. All you can do is talk though. its up to him to make up his own mind. Good luck.

oh yeah....might want to take a look at the laws in the area also...CSC and such.

Answer 7

Yeah talk to him and make him understand that its so soon. He will probably would enjoy more when he would understand the relation and when mentaly strong. Or just tell him his penis will stop growing once he had sex at an early age. You are a big bro and he would trust you. ;)

Answer 8

YES!!! Make sure he understands the consequences of his actions should something unforseen happens like an unplanned pregnency or STD. Be sure he understands what could happen if the young lady is underage and her parents find out and disapprove. Be sure he understands that it would be better for everybody if he waited, but if he won't, make sure he understands personal protection! You sound like a great older sibling!! He's lucky to have you in his corner.

Answer 9

I think that you should let your parents know what he's planning, and or tell him he's to young, doesn't know what he's getting into and that he's to young to become a father, and scare him into not doing it, by telling him about the STD's that he can get from having sex.

Answer 10

i think its ok, my little brother is 15 as well, and he started dating at 13. He actually uses webdatedotcom to find his dates. He says he finds good company there.

Answer 11

no i think you should just leave him alone he's probably just a bunch of talk too.... so yeah u should probably only touch the subject randomly and briefly but otherwise let him make his own decisions otherwise he'll feel pressured or nervous.