ok, my close frinend and her cusin go to school with me. her cusin has this huge crush on me but i dont like him........at all.how can let him know i dont with out hurting him or losing my friendship with his cuz.
2006-06-22 17:30:43 · 22 answers · asked by DaniFilth'sBitch[LibertinaGr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I say take 'Jason M' up there on a child leash and let him wear the diaper and suck his thumb and you can tell your friends cuz that you're just not able to be involved with anyone because you have this disturbed male person you have to babysit and change diapers for and you just don't have time for a life right now.
2006-06-22 17:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him have his crush on you. Don't say anything about it unless he mentions it to you directly. Then if he asks you out or something you can just tell him that you're flattered that he's interested in you but you just couldn't date someone that's related to a friend because you wouldn't feel right about it or lose your friend if the relationship broke up badly. This way, it's all about losing a friendship and doesn't put him down at all.
2006-06-23 00:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by kachina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to approach this situation is to be honest. You should tell him that you really aren't interested in him, but be gentle. If he's reasonable, he'll understand. Even if he feels hurt now, there may come a time later in his life when he finds himself in the same situation and, all of a sudden, he will see your whole situation in a new light. Maybe you could talk to your friend about it. Again, be careful what you say and remember that they are related. Just don't stress too much about it.
2006-06-23 00:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by magicactor5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight forward you don't like him. If that doesnt work. Tell her you dont like him. If she cant respect it she isnt a very good friend. Dont worry, friends come a dime a dozen, and more and much better friends can be made.
Remember this:
"A friend will bail you out of jail.....but a real friend will be sitting next to you in the same cell saying, "Dude... How did we get caught again?"
2006-06-23 00:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by Rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there. Tell your cousin to tell him that you want to be a friend and thats it . It's what all the teenagers are doing here. They all have girl friends while having the real girl-friend. If that doesnt work then get a backbone and tell him that you honestly have no interest in him. He's not your type
2006-06-23 00:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by vikinglass1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend how much you like so-and-so, some other guy that's not her cousin! Better yet, just start dating someone else you have interest in and make sure he finds out. Continue to be nice to both of them and don't worry too much about it, they'll get over it! You can't help who you like and don't like. :)
2006-06-23 00:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by JStrat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say u have a crush on some other guy like say it when he is around with other people not by himself but make sure he hears u.
2006-06-23 00:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing, you have too true to him always, because if he madly love you then its effect can be dangerous, so just be soft and polite to him, tell him friendship is more then any other relation in this world, you need to realize him that there is not same thing in both side. just need to put right words on right time, but just true to him not just keep making hi like this other wise it will grow ore as time will spend and you will worried when it will be happen, so just treat him as i mention above, RIGHT WORDS ON RIGHT TIME.
2006-06-23 00:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by saKet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask your close friend how to let her cousin know that you don't like him. She would know his personality best . . . that way you won't lose your friendship with her because she is the one giving the advice.
2006-06-23 00:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by Donel P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has made his feelings clear to you, just tell him as gently as possible that you do not want to pursue a relationship with him. Honestly is the best.
2006-06-23 00:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by oremus_fratres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋