i like this guy who has a girlfriend!?
we talk all the time. we both love running, and he even told me to go to the same college as him, he is seriously the perfect guy for me. one problem, his girlfriend! what can i say to him that shows im interested.. but not to show too much cuz hes dating someone?
2006-06-22 17:01:54 · 14 answers · asked by catie g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's not the perfect guy for you - HE'S TAKEN!
Move on. Find someone for you.
Man, do you think so little of yourself that you feel that you don't deserve your own man 100% to love you and commit to you?
This guy isn't the only one around who runs and goes to college!
Believe in yourself a little. Leave other women's men alone. Put yourself in HER position. Think about HIS morals. If he's doing this now...you can finish the sentence.
Focus on you, your studies, staying fit and healthy. The right, available, wonderful man that is for YOU will find you soon enough - just when you aren't looking.
2006-06-22 17:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by paddlinglikecrazy 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If he is not showing any interest in you beyond platonic interest, don't say anything. He has a girlfriend and you should respect that, even if you are attracted to him.
If he does make any sort of advance or innuendo, you can bring the topic up. But tell him nothing can happen... not even intimate lunches or anything else... unless he's single.
2006-06-23 00:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by JStrat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would wait until he was available, but in the meantime keep building a friendship. If his relationship doesn't work out you have already done great legwork. If he gets serious or more with this woman, you still have a really good friend.
We ladies must respect each other enough to not encroach on each other's romantic partners. If roles were reversed you would want your boyfriends girl pal to respect your relationship, no?
Friendship is not a booby-prize.
2006-06-23 00:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by Denise C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to give you a small hint or advise do not rush things to much.
by now trust me he has you already on his mind.from a guy's way of thinking is that by him telling you his problems that he is getting troubles is a kind of way he is asking you to save him. so just reach out a littel and let the ball of yearn full of love roll and you'll be shocked.
2006-06-23 00:10:13 · answer #4 · answered by HITCH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least he is not married, so that's good, you stand of chance of making him your own. If he shows you he is interested in you, and is giving you clues he likes you, I think you should do the same.
2006-06-23 00:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by Angel_Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can say HEY we need to hang out sometime as friends. Once you got him there... all you do is flirt guys always flirt back and he'll get the clue that your interested.... dont' go over board on the flirting though :-D
2006-06-23 00:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gal... no help for that... i experienced alot of these situations before.... all u can do is to just let him know... let him choose... if he really chooses u... then u r lucky... if not... then im sorry... u need to juz find a new one... no point fighting for a guy when there are zillions of better ones out there rite?
good luck to u anyway!! =)
2006-06-23 00:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jeremy Yong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't disturb the relationship within that guy with his girlfriend please....just stay away!!! Do you want this case will happen to you same some day, don't you?
2006-06-23 00:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK let him decide that-- you get too pushy he may back off. JUSt let nature take its course.---star
2006-06-23 00:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life...
2006-06-23 00:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by Nameless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋