ok so here is the story i had a friend we were best friends for years are families were close too. ok so i had aboyfriend my first real love he was me first every thing and then i found out they were messing around so i lost them both but i forgave her. we were fine for awhile then i found a letter she wrote me new boyfriend saying how much she loved him. so we stoped talking for a while and then she hooked up with my boyfriends friend and i found out her boyfriend was cheating on her so i told her she got mad at ME and stoped talking to me and are other friends now she has no friends at all and i know she is sad and she is still with that guy and i know he treats her bad so should i forgive her and just makeup and be friends agian so she has somebody there for her?
2006-06-22 16:53:56 · 18 answers · asked by Jojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this is what i'd do. find new great friends who bring out the best & good in me & the ppl around them. forget the past but remember the lessons u learnt from it as it will help u in the future to not make the same mistakes. life is too short to be making the same mistakes again & again. ignore all the losers u had in yr life or r still around with. think this way, u deserve way more in life. be with ppl who really care about u sincerely, respects u, makes u laugh, good morale value, who r positive & do good. forgive her as it helps with the healing process, talk to her about what she did is bad & tell her that what goes around comes around. try not to be around her or be her friend. negative ppl bring out the worst in u. u don't need this. u have to decide what u want to do & work from there. whatever u decide remember u have to make sure u r not going down again. u r smart & beautiful & deserves the best. hope this helps =)
2006-06-22 17:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by mo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a roller coster, and if you enjoy being used as a boyfriend producing machine, then hey stay friends. She is not going to stop, it seems that she enjoys sampling whatever you have. Now when you find someone you want to settle down with for real, she would be an excellent test for him, because you already know what she is going to do!!!!!
2006-06-22 23:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by simplyfabulous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are so fickle. Seriously, I've had only two really close (female) friends and a couple of others I'd hang out with, and I'm now almost 26 years old. And one of those two close friends has betrayed me before when it comes to guys. My advice is to find one really really good guy friend and stick with him. Hey, maybe you'll discover you REALLY like each other, and even if you don't, he might introduce you to your future soul-mate. : ) Some of the best friends I ever had were guys!
2006-06-23 00:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by married_so_leave_me_alone1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok that very simple you don't need to get mad at all bec u are still young and there are still so many friends along the path that you still have not meet yet, so now what you can do is just left it this way, let her choose it for herself if not she will take it for nothing. now what you need to do is your study and don't get all this stupid thing going around you and there are 1000 ways of getting this kind of problem solved. so if you have any more problem do drop me an e-mail.
2006-06-23 00:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by shawn l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not make up with her if it is just going to be more stress on you. That's not what friends are for. Do it because you really like her, have a good time with her, enjoy her company etc...if you don't then don't make up.
2006-06-22 23:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by sophiensamsmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like ur a better friend than she is. u need to decide the answer to that question. will u ever b e able to trust her around another bf?
2006-06-23 00:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by thundakat312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK UNLESS this person changes she will do it again. AND she dont sound like a good friend back. FIND SOME ONE WHO WONT STEAL YOUR boyfirends, and stab you in the back.
2006-06-23 00:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can NEVER trust her. If you become friends with her again you'll have to remember she'll will be around your man always. You will alaways have to watch her and you should NEVER have to watch your FRIENDS.
2006-06-24 03:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by true blu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone showed their true color, believe it the first time. so the answer is NO, unless you want her to steal your future boy friend again. you should not trust her ever, find new girl friend.
2006-06-23 00:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by Discovery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not reading ALL THAT to answers: "make up or not?"
sheesh. But I always wear make up so Im just gonna say yes.
Make up always works no matter what.
2006-06-22 23:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋