okay heres the thing. My mother keeps going on and on about how the first time i have sex without a condom im going to get pregnant, well i did the most stupidist thing ever and had sex with out a condom, but the guy pulled out before he came. I took one preg test but i think i took it too soon. Any Advice?
2006-06-22 16:45:57 · 29 answers · asked by Baby J 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
1) Wait a week, and take another test. Follow the instructions carefullly and don't rush it. Don't worry too much in the meantime, it won't help in the slightest.
2) It is perfectly possible to become pregnant even if he withdrew before ejaculating, there are quite sufficient sperm in his pre-ejaculative emissions to fertilize you. However, it is also quite difficult to fall pregnant that easily, your mother is wrong as far as that goes. Think of how many couples trying for babies struggle to conceive. You need to be at the right time in your cycle (9-14 days after your period ended), you should not be too hot or anxious and it is preferable, if you are trying to conceive, to allow the full ejaculate to settle against the cervix for as long as possible after lovemaking - which you did not do. The chances are you are not pregnant - but you still might be.
3) NEVER, EVER HAVE SEX WITHOUT A CONDOM AGAIN. Being pregnant is the least of your problems - children are, I assure you, wonderful. However, STDs are not. Although HIV is treatable it is not curable and most sufferers should expect a shortened lifespan. Chlamydia can go unnoticed and leave you infertile. Minor STDs are uncomfortable and embarrassing. And have some self respect. Sex is fun, but not at any cost, and not with just any guy. It's not rocket science.
2006-06-23 05:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Liberal 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Time is a factor. Take the test too soon and it tells you nothing. You'll have to wait 3 weeks or so to take a test and get a good idea if you 're pregnant.
Secondly, if he pulled out in time, it doesn't matter. Semen can leak forward prior to ejactulation. It's the wet tip when he's excited. And that wet tip is LOADED with sperm. So withdrawal will only get you in trouble.
Thridly, don't play the rythmn game. Your period is most likely not clockwork. Just when you thought it was safe....
I hate to say it, but mom is right. Use a condom. She's not going to stop you from fooling around. So be smart and take her advise.
Good luck
2006-06-22 16:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by vector4tfc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, even if he pulled out before he came, there is a slight change that he did premature ejaculate inside you. See, what happens is that before a guy comes, pre-ejaculatory fluid comes out first to neutralize the acidity of his uretha, the thing is, sperm also travels with this.
but the chances of you getting pregnant should be low. It all depends on what day of the cycle you are on too. the 14th day has the highest chance for actually getting you pregnant. if it's been less than 72 hours, you should take a morning after pill. it prevents pregnancy for around 72 hours after sex. but also, get on the pill if you plan on having sex, if you got health insurance, it's like 40 bucks a month and my girl is on it and i don't use a condom. No problems for us.
hey, i hoped i help. Get some birth control, aight?
2006-06-22 16:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by blackknightpictures 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you are officially 'late' Try to talk to your Mom. A blood test can tell early, but your schedule of cycle is the best way of 'knowing without testing. Don't make yourself sick over 'thinking' about it too much. Studies say that there is only about a 48-72 hour window of fertility for most women. Pregnant or not, you need to be tested for STD's also!!! BE SAFE
2006-06-22 16:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by A P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are very low. My husband and I do the pull out method. Depends on where you were in your cycle also. You only have about 3-5 days a month that you can get pregnant. All you can do is wait. If you don't want a baby...don't have sex!
2006-06-22 16:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by cracker2423 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just calm down and wait a day or two. A lot of people freak out in your situation. Chances are you are not pregnant. Look for tell tale signs that your period is coming. Just hang in there. Make sure you start keeping better track of your cycle so that you aren't as worried if you know you are not due for a few days.
2006-06-22 16:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Tact is highly overrated 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you're pregnant, it would serve you right for being so careless and stupid. Don't do the crime if you can't do the time. Are you ready to quit highschool and live on welfare for the next 18 years in the ghetto? If you aren't you better smarten up when it comes to your body and birth control and NEVER and I do mean NEVER trust a guy that says he'll pull out......even pre-*** has sperm in it.
2006-06-22 16:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, be more responsible, getting pregnant is not the worst that can happen to you for having unprotected safe, be smart.
You could be pregnant wait and take another test. Next time think twice.
2006-06-22 16:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by Shaki_smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he pulled out, there's still sperm in the prefluids. There's always a possibility that you can get pregant if you've had unprotected intercourse. You'll have to wait until the first day of your missed period, if you're late to be able to see if you are.
But try not to stress because that can delay your period.
2006-06-22 16:50:49 · answer #9 · answered by SmilingG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though they guy pulled out, you still got sperminated, because of pre-ejaculation, pre-***, whatever you want to call it, anyways, you always use protection no matter, what, you don't know this guys past, or the girls that he has done it with before you pasts, etc, not trying to worry you, but it is always better to be safe than sorry
2006-06-22 16:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by shezdoni2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋