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I was just wondering. With all the sex and nakedness and nasty stuff on t.v. and in the magazines and EVERYWHERE else, do men ALWAYS have other women on their minds? Why can't they just be satisfied with the REAL women they have instead of the perception that the media shoves down everyone's throats? Why do they cheat??

2006-06-22 16:09:29 · 15 answers · asked by Melissa t 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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men are pigs generally; so I never can trust my husband does not matter how much he acts lovely .
I have not been cheated yet !! but it is possible because
men are pigggggs.

2006-06-22 17:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by haleh 1 · 0 0

All men don't cheat! Yes there are a lot of losers out there but there are also some winners! So if they think about being with another woman what is wrong with that? As long as they don't pursue anything its not a big deal. I can look at someone and wonder what it would be like but that does not mean I would do it. Its just a thought. All men don't want these little t.v. women either. I am a smaller petite female who has been told plenty of times that i would be "perfect for them" if i gained 20 or 30 lbs. So not ALL men want smaller. I think men cheat for no other reason than they have something missing within themselves. They say they were not getting what they needed from us as an excuse...its something in them. Something makes them give up all common sense when it comes to a woman. Not all of them are like that tho.

2006-06-22 16:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

According to various surveys, 60% of men and 40% of women cheat.
I don't think that it has to do with TV, magazines and so on (though it contributes to stimulate it). the real point is that there is no objective, natural reason that humans should be monogameous, it's just a social convention mainly justified by financial concerns and the men's fear to raise children that are not actually theirs.
Our natural tendancy is to be attracted, mostly by persons from the opposite sex. Remaining loyal is a fight against our nature, not the other way around.

2006-06-22 16:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by Steaming emotions 4 · 0 0

Thats a good question but one that has a very simple answer NO. Not ALL men cheat that would really be impossible but i don't think were talking about just one guy here. The % of men that will cheat however generally goes hand in hand with 2 other things
#1 how good looking they are
#2 how good looking they think they are
If your a good looking guy guess what if you see a girl that really good looking and your like hey why not shes not gonna say no look at me? then u know what there gonna do it and cheat. But if there some shmuck who dosent know anything about anything there gonna be content with whatever they got and prolly try to hard to hold onto it and blow it. Believe it Ry Guy

2006-06-22 16:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by ryan o 2 · 0 0

dishonest truly has more effective to do with the Cheater particularly than the Cheat-ee - some egos have a hollow that they try to fill- and subconsciously or consciously they experience entitled to bigger interest, affection, confirmation... It has no longer some thing to do with love- that is truly more effective about self-loathing, and perceived needs as against actual needs. at the same time as adult males or females cheat- they comprehend that is incorrect, and that is incorrect because hurting somebody else is in no way good for your self. some human beings stay in a deeper state of denial than others. they might rationalize dishonest through telling themselves that they deserve tru love or happiness- yet both one in each of those start up from interior of. Love is a decision- so is happiness, and also you'll distract your self with new human beings or memories, yet finally you capture as a lot as your self and then you need to start up all throughout back or restoration the problem.

2016-11-15 03:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

All these sex, nakedness, and nasty stuff on T.V., BOOKS, VCDs,DVDs, and so on are the weapon of the deceiver, young are old one could be easily deceived, as the flesh is weak, one has to become strong in his/her spirit, to overcome this deceiver's weapons, then they will remain true to their better half.
Otherwise they keep cheating them self by fulfilling the desires of the flesh, and cheat others too.

2006-06-22 16:20:27 · answer #6 · answered by raja 3 · 0 0

I wouldn't say all men cheat, there may be 1-3% of men out there that don't cheat.

We guys want to be loyal but I guess it's just normal to get attracted to other girls physically. Not that we're cheating emotionally.

It's both human nature and the environment that made it harder to let go of our ego and human nature.

2006-06-22 16:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jivan S 3 · 0 0

There are more women than men in this world and as a result in all actuality men have options to see other women even if they are married. If a man doesn't cheat on you physically, he will cheat emotionally or mentally. That is just the way they are by nature. If you have the love of your life on your arm but you are in a room with a lots of good looking men, you may glance at them and even find one of them sexually attractive to the point where you may fantasize about them. That's life. Just because you are in a relationship with someone or married to them does not mean your partner is DEAD or BLIND.

If you were to talk to most women who have been married more than 30 or 40 years in most cases they will tell you stories of some form of infidelity. It happens and it is apart of life.

Realize that there are seven women to every man in this world. Just because a man is married or in a relationship doesn't mean that there aren't women out there who are going to respect that and that aren't going to find him attractive and try to tempt him. That's just not how it goes in life. Even when you are married to a man you are still in competition with other women..... even if you are the #1 woman in his life.

The reason I say this is because if you are lucky enough to find a man to marry you, know that there are so many more out there that aren't going to be as lucky to find a partner to dwell with and they will come after your man and what you have (in some cases you will know the women personally and in some cases you won't) That's just reality.

The truth of the matter is you have to be confident with in yourself. You have to compete for him in your own way, you should never stop dating, never stop taking care of yourself (the same goes for him), never give up on constantly working on your relationship with him. Keep things rolling. Spice things up, change things up and reinvention.

Now if a man cheats whether it is physically, mentally or emotionally YOU have options as well. and you find out you have an option to stay and work things out move past it or go on.

Another reality is that MEN LOVE SEX! and unfortunately a great many of them will take what they can get even if it means cheating on their partner. Take it or leave it. It is apart of their nature to atleast fantasize about it. Just be educated and protect yourself.

2006-06-28 04:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by Denise 2 · 0 0

Mine doesn't cheat but I do feel that guys are very visual and
I think that women have to accept this and concentrate
on improving other areas of their life ie. career or hobbies

The media is constant with their belief that sex sells as I'm
sure it does but this is only one aspect in life. There is so
much more to women than this and it is up to us to show
ourselves and others we are more than what the eye can see.

2006-06-22 16:26:52 · answer #9 · answered by Sara 3 · 0 0

No I have been married for 10 years and I have never cheated on my wife and don't intend to there is nobody any better than my wife. Granted that is just my opinion

2006-06-22 16:16:08 · answer #10 · answered by Sander 4 · 0 0

No not all men cheat,
I heard all kinds of excuses, we are primal,it goes back to trying to reproduce as much as possible. it was just in my face. I was drunk. I was in Vags. she is my boss. blahhh bla bla ...... 95% of people don't have the will or morals to control themselves weather it be chocolate, drugs,ice cream , food, T.V.,work,inerternet, or sex, you name it some one has gone too far with it . probably didn't answer you but I tried ?

2006-06-22 16:29:28 · answer #11 · answered by wanderlust111 2 · 0 0

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