my bf stays in contact with alot of his ex's and i dont like it ,they call all the time if im there he dont an

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they call all the time with so called problems he wont answer sometimes if im around i dont think some of them even no about me and we live together ,one she calls wants to no where he is at what he is doin this is the daughter of one of his ex's ,he was payin bills for his other ex ,he goes over to there houses still ,there has been times they needed rides and he would drop me off at home or someone elses house to wait while he goes to take them somewhere, i feel really insecure at times because there r 2 women that he is around alot constantly they have to no what he is doin and where he is at if he dont call them they wanna no why,i check his phone bill he talks to these 2 women everyday

Answer 1

WOW no one should be that close to their ex, it just isn't normal. I would tell him how you feel about his constant contact with this women. Ask him what is up, if he is commited to you, he should probably keep the phone calls down to a call/visit per week tops.

Are their further curcumstances? Does he have children, or owe these women money?? Get the full story and then you can decide how to handle it. If i was in your shoes I would at the bare min be asking questions.

Answer 2

How very, very disrespectful of him and do this. U need to put ur foot down and put it down hard, because this kind of thing shouldn't be happening, he's wrong. He showing u that he cares more for them then he does u, and the next time these gals call u nee to let them know that ur he's live in girlfriend and u do not enjoy them calling. If they say he said to call tell them ur saying not to call because it's ur place and u phone too so

But u need to get into his a*s*s* 1st because he's the one who gave the number to them in the first place. He needs to keep these girls in the past since they're he ex girlfriends.

I can't stand it when I heard or know of something like this is happening to someone. Sweetie he's showing u NO respect at all and the girls who do know u live there is showing NO respect either. So put ur foot down and tell him if u and your relationship means anything he will put a stop to these calls and giving out rides.

Good Luck Sweetie

Answer 3

I think you already know the answer to the question you are asking but you don't want to admit it to yourself. If has a child by one of these women, then naturally he is going to have to be in contact with her. Helping her in a limited capacity is going to be a part of the game, regardless if you like it. Now, the woman he doesn't have a child with? To me, there should be no reason for contact. If they had an amicable break-up, it is possible that they could still be friends and friends only, however "hiding" you isn't kosher. Why are you settling for a man who can't openly declare himself to be with you to all he knows? A man who can't take you along when he gives someone a lift somewhere? Do you really need us to spell out for you what you already know?

Answer 4

I think you have to trust your boyfriend. If you don't, you will be a very unhappy girl. If he was going out with those 2 girls, I would worry. He's just being nice to them. He probably thinks of them as sisters.

Just try not to bug him. Men can be real sticklers when you question them or their judgment. But remember, he's living with you not those 2 girls!!!!

Answer 5

get out now!