I am a sincere, dedicated man and always go out of way to help...but have never been loved. The girls whom I love, leave me...I am an average looking guy, what could be the problem...what are the prerequisite of love other than a loving heart?
2006-06-22 15:56:38 · 18 answers · asked by Arnie 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Nothing is wrong with you and you shouldn't ever feel that way no should! there is a person in the world for everyone... Sounds like you should first learn to love yourself first before anyone else and understand that confidence is essential & sexy at the same time , once you get to this level of knowing yourself you won't stand for the BS anymore and you'll be more in toon with yourself , your needs, wants & what you simly won't stand for... don't wear your heart on your sleeve it makes you an easy target, trust me I know !!! You'll be just fine just give yourself time to grow babe!
2006-06-22 16:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by Almond_eyez 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You've thrown a curveball, pal.
I'm not an average-looking fellow...I'm sub-par at best...but I know the feeling of eternal self-sacrifice in vain. The fact is, there is no answer, and there's nothing wrong with you. It's human nature to bite the hand that feeds us, including harming those we love, and those who love us, the most. Now, you say the girls you love leave you. But have you thought about the girls who love YOU? The ones you don't notice? I got kicked in the face with that recently, and believe me, it's an odd sensation for our kind of people.
Seek Peace, Fly High, Find Love,
Poncho.
2006-06-22 23:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by Poncho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here man, I used to be like that. I had the passion to help others and yea I had the same problems girls turn down on me. Try to take it like this, some girls are too blind to see what a true person you are. Some just not interested that's all.
2006-06-22 23:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a relationship there is always a dominate person and a submissive person. Those who claim to have equality in a relationship are mostly lying or denying the truth, and those few who have it is a scarcity. Seems like you allow yourself to be at the will of your loved ones and you tend to be "walked on" Establish dominance in your next relationship instead of being "Mr. nice guy" and to est dominance dosent mean that you have to be disrespectful or take advantage of the other.
2006-06-23 00:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by Sue S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give Shez doni2 10 points
2006-06-23 00:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your being to nice, remember the saying " nice guys finish last " well it's true. it seems like now a days the only guys girls want are guys that treat them like dirt, use them for sex, get em pregnant, then dump thier ***, or they beat the **** out of them, or mentally, and emotionally abuse them, etc, then all you hear from the girls, is how the wish they would find a guy that would treat them like a princess, then when that guy comes along, like you and me, thye stick around for awhile to they spend all your money, etc, then go running back to the guy they say they hated being with, so my suggestion to you, is stop being so nice, play the ignoring game with them, etc, and they will come running like fly's,
2006-06-22 23:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by shezdoni2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arnie youv'e got to start with loving yourself. Get that down first and the rest should come.
2006-06-30 21:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by owllady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you haven't yet met your soul-mate. But you will. You have to. To give hope to all the rest of singles out there.
2006-06-22 23:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
too needy? too clingy? co-dependent? stop me when i get close. If I could answer your question, i'd be rich. Truth is, its always different with every person. Just try to be happy and it will happen. Truthfully.
2006-06-22 23:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds crazy and ridiculous, but...
Maybe you are too nice. Most women like a challenge.
2006-06-22 23:02:18 · answer #10 · answered by tab42104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋