2006-06-22 15:28:05 · 7 answers · asked by Felicia C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You may never get the 'flame' back, but you can definitely stoke the embers and have a nice hot bed of coals!! Plan surprises... meals in your bedroom spread out on the bed, with foods that lend themselves to play ; pineapple, grapes, honey, whipped cream, chocolate sauce, etc... or try dating again. If you have kids, shuffle them off to a neighbor or relative for the weekend, and just have fun together. Play tourists and see your own town like you don't live there. Go out to eat at a restaurant you've never been to before. See a show, or just take a nice, slow walk together. BE together like you used to be when you didn't have kids or a busy life. Try some new lingerie. Make him a basket with new stuff for the two of you to try together, like warming gels for massages, and toys to try if you are into that. Make a game with your egg timer and some homemade cards; have six small piles of homemade cards that have things on them such as "massage your partners back for 3 minutes" and may go up to any position or act you like. Put the easier, lighter stuff into pile one, and go up to pile six, which will have your "hottest" stuff in it. Roll one dice, and whatever number it lands on, choose a card from that pile and do what it says. Then it's the other persons turn. The only rule is you CAN'T make love! ( We always end up making love anyway, coz you just can't stand it, but it's fun trying!) The point is to spend quality time together, and just have fun again! The rest should all fall right into place! Good luck!
2006-06-22 15:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by themom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Spice things up in the bedroom with new ideas and posistions. Fall in love all over again by dating and doing things together that you like to do. Act like you are dating. Dress nicely for one another and try role playing. Call each other during the day just because!
2006-06-22 23:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Christina C' is going to make (or is already) a great wife. SHE has the right idea. Take some interest and BE sexual for your husband. Also - of course - lose weight. Don't believe all the non-sense you hear on TV.
LOOKS MATTER.
You had "the flame" when the relationship started (partly) because he really dug you sexually. He really dug you because you looked good. LOSE WEIGHT. Look good for him, wag your hot bod around for him and (to steal an old but great line) ...
... he'll be all over you like a cheap suit.
Also - this from my own babe - whenever he says something sexual to you, say "I like that." If he says "I want to f??k you" ... tell him you like it ... If he says "take off your top" ... tell him you like it ... tell him you like it, and you'll soon find fire pouring out of his ears.
Men ... 1)like to know that you like sex and 2)like to know that you like the way they have sex with you ... its really that simple.
2006-06-23 00:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tease him by putting one of your sexy panties in his pocket and dont say anything and walk to the room.buy a new teddy, call him at work and tell him you have a sexy night planned say hurry home and hang up., dont give him a chance to talk. he will be so turned on he will rush home.leave the kids with a friend or family memeber and light up the house with candle in the bathroom, have a hot bath, jump on him when he gets home, do someth9ing sexy that he wont expectfrom you.good luck.
2006-06-22 22:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
toys
2006-06-22 23:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by jsjr12469 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set the house on fire.....
2006-06-22 22:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by ibjuscoolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find out please tell me!!!
2006-06-22 22:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋