could it have something to do with my father? even though i get along with him great
2006-06-22 15:20:16 · 8 answers · asked by Jessica 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You're listening to your heart and not your head. You're making snap decisions and deciding you are in love when actually you are in lust. It's quite different. How long does it last with each guy? A long time, or does if fade quickly? I tended to do that too, so I could justify sleeping with a guy I found attractive. There is something definitely attractive about bad boys but it wears off quickly. They break your heart too. Decide what you really want in a guy for example, his ability to take care of himself, or is he good with money, good with kids, extremely responsible, and look for that instead of going by looks. It'll pay off in the long run. And yes, there could be some of your dad's traits in some of these guys. I have five sisters and there is a little bit of Dad in all of the husbands, including my first AND my present one. It's hard not to be attracted to something that attracted your mom. Go with your head. Not your heart or any of your other parts that scream out to you.
2006-06-22 15:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Could be a self esteem issue. You might want a jerk because on some level you think that's what you deserve, and you might want an older guy because you want an "authority figure" to boss you around. Neither is healthy. Find a counselor to help you root out this psychological crap.
2006-06-22 22:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by wunderbird193 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read women who love too much by Robin Norwood its all about not filling in the emotional blanks about someone with amazing and imagined details before you know them.
2006-06-22 22:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by Zinc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These men probably fulfill some need that you have deep within you that other fellows just can't; do some soul searching to find out what that need is.
2006-06-22 22:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your looking for someone that as wisdom but ends up being a WIMP I know that for a fact. go for someone your age there is No such thing as wisdom
2006-06-22 22:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so but i understand how you feel.. alot of times they just have the uppe hand and younger chicks admire that so we fall for everthing they say!!!
2006-06-22 22:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...and it isn't love. it's "attraction" or "puppy love"
2006-06-22 22:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL ITS HOW YOU LIKE THEM
2006-06-22 22:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by Thalia L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋