i am already married and about to have my first child but my ex bf is till bothering me..its okay if it is just plain text but his quotes sometimes makes me feel that i am a bad person...
2006-06-22 15:18:43 · 10 answers · asked by gurl_complicated 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont let him get you down...he is jealous because your happy and expecting...dont let him get to you cause your baby is the most important person you should be thinkin about and stress isnt good for you. take care and good luck
2006-06-22 15:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by wicked 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its prolly a good idea to tell him your married now and you feel its disrespectful to your husband to keep conversating with him ..your putting yourself in a bad situation and if your husband finds out you risk the chance of losing him .. he is an ex for a reason sweety dont put yourself in the situation to have feelings for him again ..put yourself in your husbands shoes..does your husband know your still talking to your ex?? If not then that means your keeping secrets and thats not a good way to start marriage .. let go of the past girl its always trouble and its ur past for a very good reason .. cut all ties before it gets complicated ..your husband deserves better then that .. you started a family hun dont do anything to risk losing it .. good luck and count your blessings a baby is a beautiful gift
2006-06-22 22:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in any way contributing to this interference into your new life? How does he have your number? If it's the one you had when you were with him, have it changed so that he cannot get to you. If he is coming to where you are, if neccessary, have a restraining order taken out on him...and ignore what he's saying if you have really gone on with your life. The best revenge is living well! If you are encouraging the messages and comments, then you need to really look deeply at your relationship with your husband. It sounds as if you may still have feelings for this man. If you do, you need to be honest with everybody, including yourself. With a baby on the way, everybody needs to know their place in your life!
2006-06-22 22:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by themom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes bothering oy ubecause hes mad that you left him and moved on.he feels that because you have a better life and ruined his, he has to get payback and ruin yours. dont let him get you down or ruin your marriage. get a change of address or unlisted phone number, and if he still bothers you, take him to court & sue for harrassment.then get a communication restraing order against him. if that doesnt work, land him in jail. good luck!
2006-06-22 22:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you accept e-mail or regular mail from him? Don't be a glutton for punishment. Hit the "ignore" button if e-mail, if it's regular mail, don't even open it up, just write in big bold letters, RETURN TO SENDER. He'll get the point.
2006-06-22 22:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not ok if he is still contacting you..he is an EX ...ignore him..dont entertain his messages..or even read them...if you must change your cell number..he shouldnt have it anyway..it doesnt matter what he thinks about you..if only matters what your husband thinks..if he continues to bother you tell your husband if yu already havent..dont keep secrects..l
2006-06-22 22:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by diane b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you change your number. It takes only a second and if you call your cell operator they can do it over the phone.
2006-06-22 22:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words. . . Restraining Order.
2006-06-22 22:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by zartsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him to stop txting you like the "love" way and txt like a real friend would do.
2006-06-22 22:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by Danielle P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a retraining order
2006-06-22 22:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋