2006-06-22 15:12:38 · 42 answers · asked by ZigZag 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lol, you poor fool. You don't need to buy her things. If that is how she experiences love you are better off without her.
2006-06-22 15:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After 10 years of marriage my answer is NOTHING. You can't buy a persons love. Try telling how you feel and try SHOWING her how you feel. A hug and a kiss will go along way to tell her that you love her. Helping out around the house so you both can spend more time with each other. Go for a walk with her. Watch the sun set together. It is the little things we do for each other that lets the other know how we really feel. The real fun part is all it will cost you is your time and a little work on your part. Believe me all the money in the world will not replace a hug, a kiss, and you telling her that you love her and how much she means to you.
2006-06-22 15:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, women don't always need gifts to know that you love them and they are special...Don't get me wrong, women love gifts, especially the shiny kind. But sometimes just saying the right words is enough to make a woman get goosebumps.
Now, if you've gotten into some trouble and she's upset with you, then definitely do something big and romantic like candle-light dinner for two and lots of her favorite flowers. Add something sparkly too like jewelry!
But if you're looking to do something just to spoil her, don't overdo it. Women love surprise gifts that come from the heart. But if you do something weekly, she'll be expecting something. Be spontaneous and keep her guessing. Now, I'm not saying only do something once a year, but the more spread out the surprises are, the more meaning they have when she gets them.
I would say random times about once a month...give her something on your anniversary date. My grandfather would always bring home a single red rose for my grandmother on the 11th of every month...I remember growing up how much it meant to her...
Most importantly, if it means a lot to you, then it will mean a lot ot her.
2006-06-22 15:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's funny how you asked about what to buy your wife to make her feel loved. Did you not love her? Is there something that made you feel that you aren't giving her something?
I'm sure if you try to talk to her instead of "watching TV" ,or if you plan an outing together that would help. Like someone says just a little attention is worth a lot of money/words. You have to have your heart in it though. Don't do it if you don't mean it.
Women are very sensitive and like to be given praises or thoughts of love. It helps them - if they know that they are loved and cherished!!!!!!
2006-06-22 15:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by fran c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. I don't need my husband to purchase things to make me feel "loved and special". A simple phone call during the day, a note left for me in the morning or even cleaning up after himself or the children once and a while is all I need. Of course a little gift or flower a few times a year never hurts anything... :)
2006-06-22 15:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by Brooke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see I,m a wife and all I ask for is that he tell me that he loves me all the time and make love to me when I what it it shouldn't,be how much you buy some one something all the time that just means you are trying to buy her love not earn it or keep it.
2006-06-22 15:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by anthonydawnernie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy? no what u need to do is cook, wash some clothes fill the car w/gas help around the house is what I would prefer than a gift-vacum the floor give her a baby oil rub down a massage for get gifts its the LITTLE THINGS THAT COUNT THE MOST and if you have kids take the kids and give her a break 2to3hhrs and spice up the bedroom get a small vibrator and use it all over her money doesnt matter the small things in life matters the most my husband washed the dishes for 3 days that drove me crazy in love w/him and he got more booty those 3 days than he could handle that made me feel love and special hell i make my own money its the SMALL things that MATTER THE MOST
2006-06-22 15:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by jcleann13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't know there was a certain amount of things that needed to be bought per week. That's kind of strange. You should buy your wife things on special occasions and other times just because you love her. It doesn't have to be every week.
2006-06-22 15:16:01 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have been married 5 years and i dont feel that you have to buy her anything to show her that she is loved and special. Just let her know in other ways. My guy dont buy me things all the time. he does other things that are special. why dont you cook for her or gave her a bath or something that is special to her that you know you can do with out a lot of prombles. try this its better then going and spending a lot of money for her and she will love it
2006-06-22 15:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by suepooh23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different people express love in different ways. For my wife I do things for her, little odds-n-ends, or chores. That makes her feel special, buying things is not her style. What love language does your wife speak? Does she crave your time, gifts, touch, actions, what? Find her love language and it will answer your question, because it may not be about what you can buy her.
2006-06-22 15:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by B R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a wife of 7 years, and I'll offer up my opinion:
Love, attention, and the friendship of my husband means so much more than anything he has bought for me.
You shouldn't have to constantly buy things for your wife to make her feel loved and special.
YOU should make her feel loved and special.
Remember...she married you, not your credit card. :-)
Go have a Happy and Blessed marriage!
Peace.
2006-06-22 15:20:07 · answer #11 · answered by Ginny Lou the Peachy One 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋