What do you girls, look for in a man, physically, in appearance, materially and maybe spiritually?

Answer 1

Humor. Girls love guys who can make them laugh. Being a gentleman doesn't hurt (open doors, give them your jacket when their cold, etc). I think most girls like the clean look...but I prefer the unshaven look...

I don't think I have the same likes as most women... I like the sleazy guy who'll put his hands all over me in public - only if we're together in a monogamous relationship though, I'm not a skanky ho.

Answer 2

There is always someone out there for every body. For me it is the personality more than the looks. If we share the same interests, morals, ethics, and spirituality. I also look at how responsible of a person they are, and if they are stable mentally and financially. All women are different as are men. Just be yourself and you will find the right woman.

Answer 3

I myself look straight at the eyes as they are the mirror to ones soul, my husband has the most amazing eyes so beautiful. I think more than anything else the personality is probably the most important thing to most people. I myself dont think that material things should affect the way you feel about someone, I love a man with a wicked sense of humour that is important to me, and more than anything else people should just be their self....

Answer 4

Before you meet a person, it is always the appearance that will either draw or repel. A man doesn't have to be good-looking, but should have self-confidence and a pleasant personality, and this can usually be "seen" by a casual observer.

So I guess self-confidence and a kind heart will always get me.

Answer 5

well, i dont know about all girls but here is what i look for...

a good chrisitan man. he does not have to be good looking (i am telling the truth) he just has to have a good sense of humor and the ability to be selfless. materially he just has to be able to support himself and a family. no extra bells and whistles. as long as there is enough money to put food on the table and supply the daily needs, thats fine.

thats just an idea...

Answer 6

Inner beauty matters more to me not the beauty outside. I don't care how the hair looks, if he's extremely handsome or how tall he is. Good attitude matters more and should be the first thing, anyone 'd consider.

I look out for what he wants, the kind of person he is and what he wants in life.
He shouldn't be lazy and should have a good attitude. He should respect me and love me for who i am.
He should be gentle and not run away from his responsibilities.
He should be a man.

Answer 7

Being faithful,loving and sincere is far more important than looks and material things. A good sense of humour is an asset. Just live to love and to be loved,everyone has faults but if you love someone enough you will not notice them and accept you have faults and maybe they will love you enough to accept your faults also.

Answer 8

some girls prefer a guy whos fit you dont have to have a 8 pack or anything just fit
you should at least know how to dress and you should know how to have fun and be able to hold a conversation spiritually doesnt really matter to me as long as hes not too religious

Answer 9

For me, it depended on what I was wanting. Just dating, not going to turn serious, "eye candy". If I wanted something serious, long lasting, then I look for someone that I have a lot in common with. And looks aren't a priority, not that I don't have to be attracted to. It helps, but there has to be major chemistry there. I mean what I married is not really what I dated.

Answer 10

Physically, a little shorter than me, long dark hair, goatee, average body. Which is pretty much my bf in a nutshell. Oh, and I wouldn't ever date a christian. Spiritually, I'd prefer atheist, agnostic, or pagan. My bf's agnostic, just like me!