hi how do u brake it off with someone u used to love?

Question

I did love him but i believe we r growing apart!!!! Wut should i do?

Answer 1

Tell him that you just don't feel the "spark" anymore and you want to wait a little bit and see how you feel later (and then when he asks you about it later, if you didn't feel the spark come back, you can just say no).

Don't cheat on him or anything though, that's just so inconsiderate of his feelings, he might still love you. But if you used to love him, he's probably always going to be a big part of your memories, so try to let him down easy and stay friends if you can. Even if it doesn't happen right away, I always wait about 6 months before trying to talk to them again.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Been there, and done that. Sit him down and let him know exactly what your feelings are, and why you feel that way. There is a good chance that he will tell you the same thing and that he agrees with you. Don't make it confrontational, or blame him for everything because it takes 2 to make it work.

Answer 3

it sounds like it's been over for a long time now. move on. he'll understand. your not going to get any younger. no sense in putting more into a relationship that is going nowhere. you wouldnt put gas into a car that didnt run. right? you'll be fine. and remember, i am a guy. we would rather know how you feel, than to be hanging on as well. good luck

Answer 4

hmm does he know that you are growing apart i think you need to sit down and talk and try and relise, or atleast help him know it that you dont share thagt same spark you's once did or dont really share much in common any more, my friends says in a long relationship you either become clser or draw furher apart

Answer 5

you are not ready to commit, tell him the truth

Answer 6

start seeing someone else and "accidently" run into him somewhere.