I know this might sound weird but I am sad that school ended. The memories I had with my friends and my great teacher and now I am off to middle school and I have to split up with my bestest friends i had since kindergarden. what should I do to let the pain get away i try to call them and they won't answer i love them like my sisters they are the best .please help me let the pain go away i will appreciate it and please don't put anything mean i am very sensitive
2006-06-22 15:01:58 · 20 answers · asked by :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
make new friends in your new school. that would get your mind off the pain a little bit.
2006-06-22 15:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by kitkit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel the pain, Don't try to get over them too soon. It is healthy to miss them, It is healthy to cry. Listen to some sad songs, or songs that you listened to withthem, call the radio station and request a song to them. Make a scrap book, send them letters, try calling again. But feel the pain and slowly work your way through it. I know this is probably the last thing you want to hear but here it goes anyway. This too shall pass, you will get over this. You are not alone and I am sure many of them feel the same way. In a few short months school will start again and you will begin to make new friends. Try to remember that these are the best days of your life, treasure everyone of them. Another thing you may want to try is to stay busy, do somthing with your parents or brothers and sisters. Read a book, etc.. You will get through this. Good luck, your friends are lucky to have someone as compassionate as you for a friend. Bye
2006-06-22 22:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwwww poor baby you have to have a thicker skin then that your going off to middle school people are meaner there. and why aren't your friend answering the phone that part doesn't make sense. but you should be happy you'll have a whole new life at a different school making new friends having new teachers you like and don't like. this is the beginning not the end so cheer up it's always a little sad when you have to move on but thats life and life can suck and also be awsome at the same time,
2006-06-22 22:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to lose your friends because you are going to a new school, you can keep bonding with your friends and now that you will be going to different schools you will have more things to talk about because different things are going to be going on at each school. Now you know its summer time and people are very hard to catch up with in the summer, why not try to plan something and call and invite them to hang out, go to the movies or the mall or have a girls night. Good luck to you.
2006-06-22 22:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww... sorry to hear that!
But its just like losing a pet!
You will get over it with time.
When your feeling really down then try more to think of it in terms of a gain rather than a loss.
You will move on and meet new peple and make new friends that even will have to offer things that will be new to you.
Its all good :)
2006-06-22 22:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by ganja_claus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what your going through I have moved from Washington State to here in Ohio and I have lost touch with alot of my friends but since I have been here I have made alot of new friends on here in Yahoo and here in Ohio. All I can do is write to them back home and if I do not get them back I am sure that they got them even though they may not write me back or even call me to see how I am doing. But like I said since I have been here in Ohio I have made alot of new and great friends just like I am sure you will make alot of new and great friends in middle school. You seem like your a very smart young lady that knows what she wants in life and that to me sems like you don't want to ever loose what you have. May GOD BLESS you and like I said I know that you will do great in Middle School with making new friends and doing what you might have your head set for.
2006-06-22 22:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by Randy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are just heading off to middle school, you need to realize that your whole life is ahead of you, and not to sweat the small stuff. Find things you enjoy doing, and do not let social bullies effect you. If you do, you will regret it when you are an adult.
2006-06-22 22:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by Jilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them some space and later on see if you can contact them in the mean time get to know new people and may be join some groups in school realize that may be these people need some space and time to get accustomed to new surrrondings if they make contact with you welcome it but do not at any costs force it lete lit happen naturally in the meantime maybe you can make some new friends that will last a lfietime I hope you have good fortune Blessings
2006-06-22 22:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are ugly!! Just kidding, I had to since you asked me not too. Your friends prob had to hang with the family and stuff. They have been waiting for this day for a bit, methinks. DOnt worry, in time you will talk to them again, and new friends are always around the corner. Peace
2006-06-22 22:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by RuneMage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life goes on... you'll meet new friends and teachers, but you know that you have a good memories of school and your good times, but you still can be with you friends only the scholar year has ended but your friendship will remain. ;)
2006-06-22 22:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by Poseidon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋