2006-06-22 14:58:35 · 12 answers · asked by cutelovableme4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you have to move out to find out ? Doesn't make sense. Aren't you supposed to move in together and then be more certain that your meant to be with each other ? If your having problems and you think moving out will fix them, it wont. The problems will all wait for you until you move in together again. Try couples counseling. If it still doesn't work after that then you will know.
2006-06-22 15:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honeslty, that is a great way to test your feelings for one another. By spending time apart, it will give you time to miss each other more, because you can't really miss someone who is right there beside you on the sofa. But by moving out and spending time apart, this will be able to test your feelings for one another and if it was meant to be then this experience will only bring you 2 closer and then you will know for sure. If you and your boyfriend live apart, but still in a decent distance, it will give you both time to think about one another, miss each other, and it will bring you 2 so much closer. It will make your relationahip grow and become even stronger. Hope this helps you out with your question.
2006-06-22 15:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea because after marriage you have to stay with him your life time so if you can't stay together for now then how could you stay for the rest of your life? It won't proof a point that you are meant for each other. If you continue staying then more true colors will reveal then probably you can tap on all the points to make further considerations whether you should continue......
2006-06-22 15:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh god no!! That just causes grief for all. As a friend that helps others move, I can tell you that people are different when you see them all the time. In time, this equals relaxation of expectations and then to boredom, and then you call up a friend (like me) to help you move out. Start small, like staying over once or twice a week. Small doses man.
2006-06-22 15:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by RuneMage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"There's a saying, if you want to know me you have to live with me."
darling, if you've lived with him and you are having doubts then most definitely a future won't be successfully promising.
When you move out you need not to go back take time to love yourself. Yes he'll come after you because he's addicted to the role you played in his life.
Moving out will only deceive you it won't give you an accurate estimation. making up your mind while you are living with him will be the best method of finding out if you are truly meant to be.
2006-06-22 15:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You need to break from each other to know for sureIF you are feeling this way.There is an old saying that may help......absence makes the heart grow fonder.Good luck.
2006-06-22 15:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meant to be together suggests a plan. Who's plan? Ask if you are meant to be together.
2006-06-22 15:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by edaily777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats stupid. you should have a gut feeling that you two are meant to be together not some kind of "sign"
2006-06-22 15:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by evie_cooper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you move out. That gives him the opportunity to go fishin,,, for booty....
if your sex is the best then.. maybe you too will get back together...if not consider yourself replaced...
2006-06-22 15:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by ibjuscoolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't recommend cohabitation in the first place.
sure move out and see.......
2006-06-22 15:39:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋