Hey guys. My girlfriend has finally ventured off into the wild, crazy party group. All she wants to do is party with her friends. I told her that maybe we needed a break so she can figure out what she wants to do with herself. Either be with me or take a break so we can find who we really are. I don't want this but I think its in the best favor of her. It only hurts me, but I don't show it. But..she doesn't want to go on break. She says "Why can't I party and love you at the same time?" I told her she can, but the partying and stuff...something is going to happen. She keeps telling me not to worry about her and that she loves me. She just wants to have fun and sometimes invites me to her gatherings. I don't go simply because I don't drink and such. What should I do...make her go on this break or take her word for it and trust her. Thank you.
2006-06-22 14:52:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you should trust her until she gives you a reason not to. I understand you dont drink but why cant you go with her sometimes just to be with her and see what she does. Maybe then you wont feel so bad when she goes without you. Girls can party and not cheat. True a lot do but it can be done. Sounds like you guys are probably young so she needs this time to be a kid.
2006-06-22 14:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trust is great but I don't think that's the only issue here.You seem like you've grown into two different people living in two different worlds.If you feel like you will both benefit from a break, then maybe it will be good for the both of you.Also, you sound like your still young and you have your whole life ahead of you.Maybe this will make her grow up and leave her reckless party ways behind her.
2006-06-22 22:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't force her to go on a break but you can only suggest it to her. let her have her fun and leave her alone if something happens its her fault not yours you warned her already there's nothing else to do but let her do her thng. i could see if she wasn't spending time with you and was ignoring you then break it off but if she's still acting like the same woman when you get together whats the problem but next time she invites you go along she might think you don't want to be involved woth her social scene
2006-06-22 22:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man ive been wit my girl for for 4 years and we have been apart for about a year and she has stayed true to me all this time so if she say she love you then dont worry cuz 4 years is a long time and i dont think she would want to start over with anyone els
2006-06-22 22:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by Ghetto SuperStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gonna take a break anyway...so why not trust her until she behave otherwise?
2006-06-22 21:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋