If a guy/gal has openly expressed interest in someone..exactly how obvious does it have to be?

Question

Seems sometimes a picture must be drawn??

Well it appears he is not clueless just prefers ditzy blondes lol :)

Answer 1

Have you asked yourself, Is the other party interested? Back off, if they are interested they'll call or make the advances. If they're not , than why put yourself through it.... People don't seem to realize that they ARE WORTH alot more than they give themselves credit for.

Answer 2

Some people just don't know how to react when they are the ones being pursued. They may have self-doubts as to why and are hesitant to respond for fear of misinterpreting someones interests into something more than what they were intended to be. As for how obvious does someone have to be at times for another to get a clue......Not only do they need to have a picture drawn, but it has to be framed, hung on a wall in front of a chair with a recorded description so they can sit there and finally be able to see the Forest through the trees.

Answer 3

yes, but I vindicated myself from them violating me 3 days ago when i asked three questions publically in answers today which proved i was telling the truth all along-it is true-i did call a few people asshole but once they found out the whole story they understood more and when i asked the public forum today the three questions (and then later detailed to them why I had done it saying i was vindicating myself because someone had made me look foolish and I had done nothing wrong) I felt a lot better. but that doesn't excuse my calling a few people assholes.when I'm angry; and I am writing something of great importance; yes, I can metaphorically write it-I do some of my best writing when i am angry because i think something isn't ethical or unjust or I am simply writing because I like to write-and I throw in metaphors and witticisms that are in perfect congruity to what the subject matter is. But, when i totally lose it because this person tricked me; that's a different story. esp when I worked so hard for it. you know what I mean?

Answer 4

Usually not alot, however if these people talk in real life they should probly express interest in the other in person...

My Idealology:
It's best to talk someone...
1. In Person
2. On A Web Cam
3. On the phone
4. On the internet/txt's

But thats just me...

And when you say 'openly' that usually obvious enough...

~Matthew

Answer 5

Some peeps need a bigger picture then others. I am oblivious 99% of the time and that 1%, I think the girl is sending me all kind of signals, when she really is just swatting at flies. Me, i use a liitle bit of interest, but all the time. Wait for a bit of resiprocation, then turn it up a notch, BAM!!

Answer 6

That's more often true for guys than it is for women. When it comes to romance, lots of men are clueless when a woman likes them. Sometimes the only option a woman has to make a man realize she likes him is to hit him over the head with a very large hammer and say, "Now that I have your attention, I want you to know that I frakking LIKE you, you dumbazz!" :D

Answer 7

If they openly expressed it. That should be a easy hint. I wouldnt need to get hit over the head to get it. Sometimes things can be a tough read so a little kick start can be nice if its needed.

Answer 8

I had to be practically smacked in the head to understand that my current girfriend liked me before we started dating. She's a natural flirt, and when women are naturally flirtatious, I think it's harder for a guy to tell, because she could be perceived as acting that way around every guy. It's when the shy types like somebody that you can tell a lot easier.

Answer 9

Body language dictates a lot and of course a sense of connection must exist.

The easiest way is to just say 'do you like me or not?' but that does take some confidence to do :P

Answer 10

when youre really into someone a picture must always be painted. no one can tell you anything bad,youre gonna believe what you wanna. howevre if it;s in your face how long can you ignore it? how good do you feel about your self, how long can you continue to let one disrespect you. the answer's already ther its up to you to make the choice babe.

Answer 11

My opinion is in cases like this it's not about how obvious a person makes it as it is about how perceptive the other person is.