2006-06-22 14:48:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Seems no one can know someone if that someone does not even know themselves.
2006-06-23 10:15:00 · update #1
hasnt everyone, or wait, do we ever really know anyone?
2006-06-22 18:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by cornholio9631 5 · 15⤊ 5⤋
As human beings we tend to project onto our friends and loved ones. We are usually in love with the person we want them to be instead of really paying attention to who they are. My mantra is "people are what they do, not what they say". It's usually actions that cause problems in a relationship, those actions are contrary to who we think the person is and we suddenly wake up and notice that they aren't who we thought they were.
Research has shown that a majority of relationships that endure are ones that have things they hate in common more than things they love. When we enter into a relationship we focus on all the things we have in common, but again, those are words. Sometimes we just really want it to work out so we SAY we love football because he does......etc. He does the same thing, sometimes agreeing with things because he wants it to work out. In other words, relationships are so complex and sometimes difficult. It's a miracle if anybody truly knows anyone else!
Good Luck, Laura
2006-06-22 22:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by Laura M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did the last person I dated I thought I knew him and once the relationship was over seems like all the lies and the real truth came out.
2006-06-22 21:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by Neek-Neek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, several times in my life and most notably my own family quite often though none of them nearly as much as my last wife. Turns out she was a complete stranger, among other things I'd just as soon not remember.
2006-06-22 21:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that has happened to me before and it was the biggest wake up call I have ever gotten. Women aren't always nice and smell good, some of them lie!
2006-06-22 21:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've been through a 5 yr relationship with nothing but questions but im glad im out of it.
2006-06-22 21:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by Frankie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes. I knew this guy for a few years and we were seeing each other for quite awhile, I was very much in love with him...then one day he shows me how he's very into the drug scene...
2006-06-22 21:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes my ex-wife and we was married for 23 years...Kind of strange now that i think back on the years..
2006-06-22 21:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL YES and i put sugar in his gas tank and in the oil tank
2006-06-22 22:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by jcleann13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-06-23 07:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by Brian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. My ex... at the end we both said, 'god, I feel like I don't know you...' We talked alot, but one day, we just didn't mesh anymore and when we talked, it was like we didn't even like each other...
2006-06-22 21:50:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋