Now what do you do if you know someone is cheating? Do you tell the other person? Do you just mind your business? My man says there is a man code. That even if he saw his brother in law cheating on his sister he wouldn't tell her. I think that is totally ****** up. Is there a time for telling and a time for not telling . What do you think?
2006-06-22 14:40:04 · 9 answers · asked by whos_tat_grl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not quite right. The man code does state that. But exceptions are to be considered when it involves a close family member.
Refer to Chapt 3 paragraph 7 verse 9.
2006-06-22 14:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think guys have a ****** up man code, because you know if they saw their best friends girlfriend talking "too close" to another guy they run and tell. I feel that if you know the person well enough, you should tell them. And let them make the decision for themselves.
2006-06-22 14:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by Houston Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send an anonamous note to the person, because is better for them to know then to get hurt at the end by findout the harway...meaning by running into the person and their Lover!
But if your conscience feels right hiding it then do, But I would tell the person straight up even if its not my business cuz then I don't want them to say ... "Oh, why you didn't warn me about it" "Why no one told me I was being cheated on"
2006-06-22 14:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by ghettoplatano2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want me to be completely honest I will. I would tell her because even if there is a guy code that is messed up if they are married and no one will tell her. If your husband gets mad then you will have to explain to him why you couldn't sit around watch anymore because it wasn't right. Otherwise you most likely will feel guilty for awhile that you didn't tell her. I hope this helps.
2006-06-22 14:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not anyone's business to be telling on someone else who's an adult. Mind your own business and let it sort itself out in the future.
2006-06-22 14:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her or him and you know they are not going to believe you and they are just going to take their side, don't bother. But if they know you pretty good and they trust you, I surely would. Mare sure that you have some information about the person where they live and all that stuff if you can.
2006-06-22 14:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone is cheating on someone i would say it. i mean how do you think that person thats getting played feels? obviously like crap/ leave him and find yourself someone else no matter how much it hurts. no one should be with someone who cant be faithful.
2006-06-22 14:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by Destiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell ya u should tell the guy cheating he needs to fess up or u will tell on him... what if it was u?
2006-06-22 14:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by Lookinstr8over 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell wouldnt u want sum 1 to tell u if your man was cheating wat goes around comes .......around ur mans a dumb ***
2006-06-22 14:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by pena_reyna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋