Why is ot OK, acceptable and erotic for girls to be bisexual, but not for guys? Are they scared of their true feelings?
2006-06-22 14:30:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think it stems from the stereotype of girls being clean, fluffy, feminine, etc. and Guys being hairy, grungy, etc. MORE feminine's fine, but MORE hairy apes? Is part of it I'm sure. Plus, M+M sex by definition involves, er,..... waste matter.....
I figure the homophobes out there, are hateful, cause they're afraid of something in themselves. Why else dwell on the issue? I figure a bi-guy is gonna have more options, if nothin else. They're gonna be more open minded than most a the very least.
2006-06-22 15:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Because women do not want a man that has sex with another man. It's just not acceptable. Maybe for some, but a majority of women do not find that appealing. It probably sickens them.
Just because a vast majority of people do not find it "acceptable" for men to be bisexual does not mean that it's not happening. Why does it have to be accepted by all anyway?
Alot of men have a like for two women to be together. That is just the way it is for now.
2006-06-22 21:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by AnthonyPaul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because most men think that two ladies "getting it on" is erotic while for those same men seeing two males in the same situation turns them off big time. In some instance men are afraid of their true feelings, but society has made them that way. 4000 years of patriarchy will do that to a sexual group.
2006-06-22 22:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not true...
It is acceptable....
Look at Benji(or is it Joel) from good charlotte...he's bisexual....The lead singer from Green day is Bi...
It is ok...its just that the majority of Bisexual men are ashamed becuase as soon they admit that they're attracted to other men, they're immasculatted by today's soicety as a "fa.g"....(Most of the time...)
2006-06-22 21:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by Chef Shortie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Double standards.
It's a man's world. Men think two chicks getting it on is hot. Men think to dudes doing the same is not.
Therefore, lesbians rock and gays should be shot.
Unfortunate but true.
2006-06-23 00:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by Peter Pan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I have the same question. But I think people are just to afraid of change and the majority of people are afraid to be told that they are wrong. That is the reason why people are so evil to each other. After all we are supposed to love each other.
2006-06-22 21:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think because guys are portrayed as masculine and the media, or stereotypes portray them as very feminine so they get beat up alot by the "macho straight guys"
2006-06-22 21:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on some level men think lesbians still want him to join in
women don't like to share and hate to think they might not have what it takes to compete
2006-06-22 22:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by martroy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys aren't like that
2006-06-23 00:51:30 · answer #9 · answered by Derek G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not OK.
2006-06-22 21:33:06 · answer #10 · answered by Nelson_DeVon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋