he takes turns every night having sex with us. i get monday, wednesday, and friday and his husband gets the rest of the week. i have had 13 kids and put them all up for adoption. so i guess you know that it is not protected. he is REALLY good, bnut still i feel uncomfortable know ing that his husband gives him blow jobs. Like you know. i am sharing a penus. what do u think?don't tell me to dump him.
2006-06-22 14:28:55 · 28 answers · asked by abcdefg15bl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
what a well thought out question. you should call jerry springer and fo on his show
2006-06-22 14:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you put this question under trying to conceive? I think that is just wrong. You need to have your husband make a choice. If he chooses the man then he is gay and you need to get on with your life. I think that if you put all 13 of your kids up for adoption, that must mean you dont want children so get your tubes tied. Every person is going to tell you get rid of him because no woman should ever have to put up with having to share her love. Either you make the choice of confronting or getting rid of him or deal with it. That whole sitsuation is definitely jerry springer material!
2006-06-22 14:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by evie_cooper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to wonder why you have kept having babies and throwing them away. If you are going to be swingers or what-ever, you obviously knew that you didn't want kids, unless you thought it would gain him for yourself. If that's the case , how many kids are you willing to toss aside for someone that obviously doesn't give a crap about you or his lost children. No, I'm not going to tell you to leave him, you deserve each other. The funny thing is that , you are a fool. 10 to 1, he cares more for the other guy than he does you. you are not only a fool, but in need of serious counseling !!!!!!!!
2006-06-22 16:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by wilburkee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One question you have had your first period and the next you have had 13 kids well I guess that means your a liar or a fool so you tell us which is it? If i had been married for 13 years and my husband wanted another wife, husband or any other sexual partner id kick his butt to the curb
2006-06-22 14:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jada 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ur saying not to tell u to dump him so ur saying that that's something u want to put up with. i don't think it seems like he is planning on stopping. try talking to him either that or reverse it on him...get u a little friend on the side while he goes to see his husband see how he feels about u being with someone else. but i truly think you guys maybe all three need to go to counseling to try and resolve this problem.
2006-06-22 16:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by Pimpin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you trying to concieve then if its been sport then continue if hes not doing enough for you then why share or you could bring your own person by on nightds hes busy like a nice girl and then make a rule you dont do his and your is yours so he wont compete for the thangs you turn up find a nice older guy thats married and doesnt want to change his life just sport and do it
2006-06-22 14:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is funny another one of your questions said you just got your period the first time and now your saying your married ti a bi guy with 13 kids....come on be real!
IF it is true......then...
Uhhh intresting........hmmmm, not my kind of life style so good luck n hope you don't get aids n those poor children take some birth control---**if this is even true**
2006-06-22 14:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by cmassaget 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
basically with the aid of fact he hasn't hit you, does not propose that it is not abuse honey. there is truly a e book referred to as "end walking on eggshells" which would be triumphant to you. there is likewise a e book referred to as "too sturdy to flow away, too undesirable to stay" that could additionally be very effective to you. you ought to get out of the placement, for your self and on your baby, formerly it gets worse. much less confusing mentioned than executed, i comprehend, even yet it truly is in user-friendly terms a question of time sweetie, formerly he hits one in all you. Get help, call your church or community womens shield or family contributors. sturdy success to you and be secure. it is going to likely be difficult, yet extra clever to be a sorrowful survivor of family contributors violence than a ineffective sufferer and it will get extra clever as quickly as you flow away. You and your son can start to heal at the same time. He needs you presently and your husband needs very serious scientific care, if no longer reformatory time.
2016-10-31 08:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you High? Whats up with your kinky question, are you all inbreds in your family? I think your absolutely crazy. Maybe prostituting is the career for you!! Get your self into some serious counseling..
2006-06-22 16:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
13 kids up for adoption? Ya right. Let's get real shall we.
2006-06-22 14:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by izabelcka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I feel sorry for you. try get help from a local church. Someone who can help you to get in touch with God.
Thats probably the Best help you can get. believe me woman.
There is Hope .So go as soon as possible.
2006-06-22 16:51:02 · answer #11 · answered by Helpfulman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋