maybe its cuz i never talked to any girls or asked any out i like same help
2006-06-22 14:23:18 · 18 answers · asked by Matt P 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Is there a reason why you're so insecure????Just because you think you're ugly doesn't mean that's what other people think fo you.Have you tried maybe improving yourself???Like going to the gym,going out to the mall or some place where you can meet people?
2006-06-22 14:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is due to low self asteam and if you think your fat and that nobody wants to date you then you will never have one. Alot of times it is how one presents ones self on if another perosn would want ot go out with that person or not and if you think that all people that are big don't get dates and never have any good looking boy friend or girl friends i can personal tell you that is wrong.
2006-06-22 14:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by comanche908 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody sees themselves as full of flaws. I think the secret is to look for what you LIKE about yourself instead of looking at all the little things you hate. Instead of focusing on that one little tiny zit on your nose, think of how nice and shiny your hair looks today. Every day, find ONE thing you like about yourself - your hair looks good, the zit that is gone from your nose, whatever, and think about it for a few minutes until it makes you smile. Then find a little tiny detail you don't like, and figure out how to improve on it, whether it is something physical or mental.
There are some things we can improve, but the trick is to focus on only one at a time. It seems less overwhelming that way. And sometimes there are things that you just have to work around. For example, my face breaks out when I eat chocolate (allergies, not zits). There is NO way I would quit eating chocolate, LOL, so I just make sure not to have any before going to work, or going out. See what I mean?
Chances are, you're not as "Ugly" as you see yourself anyways. Everyone thinks they are less attractive than others see them (did that make sense, LOL). I mean, I don't think of myself as attractive either, but I get "hit on" all the time, and I have yet to find someone who seriously says "Wow, I am so good looking!" You need confidence!
2006-06-22 14:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by adashlldoya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe its just a low self esteem thing, but maybe you could try just talking to some of the girls you know or something, maybe if you become friends with some of them, you will feel more comfortable around them.
2006-06-22 14:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by Groovychik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not ugly! God made you perfect & you are...have confidence in yourself & you'll be just fine! Just try & ask a girl out & see what happens ya never know it just may be great!!
2006-06-22 14:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by GT500girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thick too. Just read my user ID. It sounds like you're just shy, not ugly.
2006-06-22 14:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by HoneyBee24-7-365 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think youre ugly? no ones ugly everyones diff. and you telling yourself youre ugly only takes you selfesteem lower. so tell your self every day I"M THE TRUTH!
2006-06-22 14:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by ke2money 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should never think yo ugly cuz u havent talked to girls or wateva..u should always luv yoself 4 who u r nd the way u r!..cuz u never know how long u gon live!..nd if u havent talked 2 gurls..its aite..dont worry...u gon start talkin 2 gurls soon or they r gonna start talkin 2 u!...u just fine nd gud..dont hate yoself!..luv yoself nd live yo life like its yo last day cuz u never know wat may happen 2mrw!...aite..peace. :-)
2006-06-22 14:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by yankeecrazychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do the opposite of what you would normally do or say..it worked for George Costanza
2006-06-22 14:42:07 · answer #9 · answered by talanas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask a girl out
2006-06-22 14:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by soccersweetie982005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋