My friend said 2 me that he's a one woman man, but if the opportunity presented itself he would have a threesome. 2 me u can't be a one woman man if u feel that way. I feel like he was contradicting himself, but that's him. What are ur feelings about it?
2006-06-22 14:09:30 · 33 answers · asked by sexylips 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He probably means that he will only be in a relationship (emotionally committed) to one woman, but is willing to have sex with as many women as possible, preferably all the at the same time. He's a guy, what do you expect? His brain and his penis contradict each other.
2006-06-22 14:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by lynz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a "one woman man" means exactly that... staying & being faithful to one woman is where he should remain... although if both guy & girl are in agreement to do the threesome thing, then maybe the exception is okay... I doubt the success of it though, someone always feels inadequate or attention deprived in such event... If this has anything to do with a marrige, "threesome" should never be a part of it... same goes with if both people love & respect each other... those are just opinion... just the way i feel.
2006-07-06 03:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by abcinco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isnt much of a one woman man if the threesome he is looking for involves two woman which iam guessing it is .Having a threesome tears up lots of lives not everyone can handle it when seeing someone you love or care about with someone else even if you are involved .My guess he isnt the one woman man he might think he is .
2006-07-06 05:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by shelly29710 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way he could be a one woman man and have a threesome is if the second partner was male. End of story.
2006-07-06 11:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by fivestarmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think he as well is contradicting himself by claiming he is a one woman man,, but then in the same breath to say he would have a threesome.. i say not a one woman man by no means.
2006-07-01 05:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer, but it seems that you love him so much that you are looking for some sort of excuse to except it and him. I think you need to go with your gut feeling, which already has the answer. And let him decide what is important. Because the way it sounds now is that he has placed the ball in your court and is making you decide what is important, the realtionship or the threesome. Let him decide.
2006-07-06 11:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well before we got married my husband and I were faithful to each other. Then he asked if I wanted to have a threesome. We chose a male friend of ours to do this with because, i wasn't comfortable with having another woman in my bed. It ended up very nice at the time, but I cheated on him w/our friend later on. We have since gotten through this, but you must be careful when you indulge in sexual fantasies. Sometimes reality just isn't as fun.
2006-07-06 10:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by biiha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends how open you and he are in this relationship.
You can be a one ice cream person and still have another flavor now and then.
I think almost all guys .. and even many girls would not mind trying a threesome once. I'm not sure if I would or not though. I really love my wife and wouldn't want anything to screw our marriage up. I guess if they were a super friend of hers and she approached me with it.. I might go along with it.. but i'd probably be really scared.
2006-07-05 15:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by game buddee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One I have a Girl and I am a one women guy andmy wife knows that. That was one of my fantasy's to have a a threesome and my wife and her bestfriend for about 10 years will give it to me when I want it and she said don't worry she knows how I feel and she will please me and I repeated to her that she didn't have to but she said it was okay and I am still a one women man but it doesn't mean anything if a guy wants to have a threesome if his partner agree's then it's fine.... Don't judge him though that's how he believe's he his then so be it!
2006-06-22 14:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by ghettoplatano2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a walking contradiction! He is telling you one thing and wanting to do another. To me, that is contradiction. My question is would you commit yourself to this person? Sounds like he wants to play two sides of the fence.
If you truly love someone, that person SHOULD be all you need.
2006-07-06 14:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by allyp51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋