2006-06-22 14:08:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dining Out ➔ India ➔ Delhi and NCR
One word:
Insecurity.
2006-06-22 14:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by J.D. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cause and effect, The girlfriend is either insecure or boyfriend has planted a seed of doubt. Sometimes when we get an overwhelming dose of emotion positive or negative it charges our mental battery and we light up so to speak. Boyfriend may enjoy the overreaction girlfriend makes and has become overt in his behavior to solicit the jealous reaction. Both need to grow up and decide on what is th superglue of the relationship, love or pathological need to hurt each other?
2006-06-22 14:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
from my experience, it is about trust
i have had boyfriends where i get really jealous everytime they even mention another girl
and i've had boyfriends where i am fine with them hanging out with another girl one-on-one
it is about your particular girlfriend and how she perceives how likely you would be to cheat on her or have feelings for someone else
the best thing you could do would be to talk to her about it - try finding out WHY she is jealous? is it something you are doing or maybe it is just very hard for her to trust ANYONE.
if it does have to do with you, try winning her trust and respect first, then she will be comfortable with you talking to other girls.
2006-06-22 14:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it either. I never get jealous when my boyfriend talks to other girls... I think it is because they are insecure about themselves... And think that their boyfriend will leave them for the other girl...
2006-06-22 14:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Andi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a natural instinct. We girls are possessive. I have no problem when my bf talks to other girls but there is that jealous feeling somewhere inside.
2006-06-23 18:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by Arpita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok everyone, it's called insecurity....overpossessive, overbearing, control freak, and really annoying. I have always said that if you can't trust me to walk across the street then we shouldn't be together. It's a tough lesson, but if you are honest and you have a clear conscience then they are basically saying you are a liar. Trust goes two ways.
2006-06-22 14:23:15 · answer #6 · answered by Michael T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with K. I think most girls are ok with their boyfriends interacting with other females, but if the boyfriend has a history of cheating, of course they are going to have a problem with it. Who wouldn't.
2006-06-22 15:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by outlawsister1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the same for men when there girl chats to men, don't worry to much about it! It depends on how you take it compliment, or sign of paranoia... don't allow each other to be paranoid... you will end up hurt!
2006-06-22 14:14:20 · answer #8 · answered by AZRAEL è 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because guys have a ****. We may start with our mouth but we always fantasize how it will end. Unfortunatly that's probably how you got your girlfriend in the first place
2006-06-22 14:13:36 · answer #9 · answered by TBor ROCKS 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I goes under several names: insecurity, low self esteem, territorialism. Take your pick depending on the situation.
2006-06-22 14:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by snoweagleltd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they think that the boy is flirting with the other girl , cheating with the other girl, or trying to start a new relationship with the other girl.
2006-06-22 14:11:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋