i find most guys to be very gross
2006-06-22 13:47:53 · 9 answers · asked by drisco21 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am straight, should I be attracted to every woman I see? I find some of them gross.
2006-06-22 13:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by TexasRed 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. You probably see gay profiles which read "I'm attracted to personality more than looks" and wonder if theres something wrong with you - probably because you require specific physical characteristics to be present.
I'm a bisexual and my same sex attraction component is also towards a specific type of guy (in terms of looks). Sometimes I think by opposite sex attraction compensates for the shortfall in guys - other times, I think of it as some kind of fetish. With a fetish, a particular thing takes priority above the human, and in reality you're chasing this particular thing - not the person. A fetish can be a specific type of clothing or even a body part (partialism).
Whether you have a problem I guess is determined by your ability to entertain relationships. If you are rejecting every single person you meet because they don't have a particular eye colour or are not young enough (e.g. if you only went for 20 something guys and you're 30/40 something) then a psychologist would ask why you're not capable of expanding your net e.g. to cover people of your age, or of all eye colours.
I may or may not have answered your question, but I hope it gives you something to think about.
2006-06-23 03:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by nemesis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so sweet. Don't answer, but I'd really like to know how old you are.
You do still like girls, right? Is it all girls, all shapes and sizes? All hair colours all eye colours? Are slinky latinas better than big black mommas? Blonde or Brunette? What about Redheads?
In answering these did you notice that you had preferences? Well if you're bi you'll have preferences for certain male types too.
2006-06-22 21:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, you be bi or even 100% gay without being attracted to every single guy in the world. Do you think straight men are attracted every single woman in the world (including Bea Arthur, Janet Reno, and other "lovelies")?
Why do you feel a need to label yourself? you are attracted to who you are attracted to, period - go with it, you don't need to explain in, define it, nor please anyone else - it is the business of no one sans you and the object of your affections.....
2006-06-22 22:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I'm straight and I only fantasize about certain women. I mean come on, if you fantasized about all men you wouldn't be very discriminating now would you?
2006-06-22 22:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay is just like being straight...except you like the same sex. Just cause you may like men doesn't mean that you have to like all of them. It's okay.
2006-06-22 20:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by honeybuns8489 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am bi and i find that i only like certain types of men but with women it doesnt matter on looks, just personality.
with men i like more dominant men. often bulkier men, and men with beards and hairy chests.. lol hairy chests is like one of my requirements :P
with women i am not fussy aslong as they are a nice person.
basically what i am saying is that everyone has their preferences and its completely normal.
2006-06-22 20:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what your sexual preference is, you are going to be more attracted to some and not others. It all depends on what you find intriguing about them.
2006-06-22 20:51:35 · answer #8 · answered by Rave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people just f*uck anything that moves....trust me ...I move!!
2006-06-22 20:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋