I have known this guy as long as I've known my husband. I love him with everything I have. I think about him day and night. I see him all the time. I have told him several times how I feel about him.I have known him about ten years.
2006-06-22 13:26:58 · 20 answers · asked by SEANJAMES 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not that I'm unhappy with my husband. This guy just does something to me. We've never went together, but there is something
2006-06-22 22:00:59 · update #1
But, what about your husband??? Where does he come in?? Why did you marry him??
What did this other guy say, when you told him bout your feelings towards him???
Cant really help ya out, know what I mean?
2006-06-22 13:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were married to this other guy you would just be in love with someone else. Ever wonder why there are so many divorces? People always see the grass greener on the other side of the fence, but its not really. Instead of putting so much energy into the thoughts of the other guy focus on your husband that you took a vow to love until deat. Make things work, fall back in love with him.
2006-06-22 20:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you definatly needa be honest with yourself ? Do you love your husband or do you love the other guy or is it infatuation ?does he give u the attention maybe your husband dont? Is there trouble in your marriage . There is so many things you needa be asking yourself right now .. I dont think you should put yourself in that situation ..you have already committed yourself to your husband maybe you wasnt ready for the comitment or maybe the marriage turned bad and you guys grew apart ? thats something only you know .. does your husband make you feel complete as a person or does he break your spirits down ..hun you gotta do what makes you happy thats for sure ..maybe seperation is an option but I think if there is a chance you can work your marriage out then you should unless its an abusive one ?? I beleive marriage is forever we take vows till death do us part for better for worse .. Im not saying its easy everyone will have obsticles im having ALOT myself in my own marriage and im in a bad one ..stil trying to find myself ..just be honest with yourself and everyone invovled you better ask yourself what you really want before you make any rash decisions .. wish you the best of luck . I would definatly leave my husband before starting any relations with this other man ..its just the right thing to do !
2006-06-22 20:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This exact same thing happened to me but it wasn't 10 years that I knew the other man, more like 4. *I followed my heart* It was the right decision. Its been 7 years and we are happily married now and I am so glad I divored my ex-husband because he has serious issues and it never would have lasted. If it had, it would have ruined my life compared to what it is today. :) things you do not see now that may be wrong with your marriage may become very apparent after you are away from it.
2006-06-22 20:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by Kacey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go thru life loving another. Life is too short. What does the guy say when you talk to him about it? Is he available? Do not leave your husband for the other guy; leave for your own happiness. If you do not love your husband, get out before you have children.
Best of Luck.
2006-06-22 21:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by Suzan R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so why did you get married in the first place if..you have known thisguy for ten years..and love him so much/ you have three choices... get a divorce... forget the guy and stay married or cheat and ruin everybodys...life... his ..yours... and your husband. my opinion is get a divorce.. your husband deserves to have a woman.. that loves him.. and not thinking about another man all the time. no one deserves to be punked like that.
2006-06-22 20:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I don't under-
stand? Someone like you
will have a husband and a-
other man want you, but I
can't get a boyfriend. And
I would never do that. Why
did you get married to your
husband if you were in love
with someone else?
Don't cheat on your hus-
band just get a divorce.
It's not right to do that to
someone!!!! How would
you feel if he did that to
you? And how would you
feel if he were in love with
someone else?
2006-06-22 20:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by allisterfiendll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is like the second question i have responded to in 5mins about being in love with someone eles but are married! YOu need to tell your husband straight up and get a divorse instead of leaving him hanging. You dont love him you need to leave him, so he can move on to. Im sure you wouldnt like it if the tables were turned. Make a right choice and get a divorse. dont make up reasons, no one is truley in love with their husband if they are loving and wanting to be with another man!
2006-06-22 20:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by Piper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be with the one you're in love with. Be happy and enjoy your life. Get a divorce. Don't waste another second being apart from the one you truly want. Take a leap of faith.
2006-06-22 21:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u still in love with ur husband, if not get a divorce
2006-06-22 20:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by lisa d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋