2006-06-22 13:25:29 · 17 answers · asked by jahiem T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
For Crying out loud! Are you out of your mind? What in the hell are you trying to get pregnant before he makes a commitment. I bet that dude has you figured out and had a vasectomy years ago...thank the Lord HE has some brains
2006-06-22 13:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just b/c your b/f can't get you pregnant should not even be something you base your decision to marry upon. Check with your doctor and have him go w/ you and find out other options to as how to conceive it might be a simple problem with a simple solution. Marriage shouldn't be taken lightly and vows should be taken seriously. DON'T EVER BASE MARRIAGE DECISION UPON KIDS NOR DO NOT EVER DECIDE NOT TO DIVORCE B/C OF KIDS. It isn't right. If your going to marry it should be b/c you love each other and want to make a life long commitment in front of God and everyone. If your going to divorce fine, but don't stay in a situation that isn't healthy for the kids.
2006-06-22 20:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether or not, you love him and want to spend your life with him... is it important that you two share a child together (that was created by you two) or do you guys love each other enough to take other routes in having children.
For example adoption - there are many children that are just as beautiful and deserve to live a happy life and you two may want to take that as a good route to go as parents.
Parents not only have children but take the responsibility to care for and love a little one.
2006-06-22 20:43:19 · answer #3 · answered by Yonna1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant get pregnant and my fiance is still going to marry me. I thought it was going to be a deal breaker then he said the sweetest thing:
"There are a million babies out there who need a family. How selfish would I be not to join you and make a family? Genetics don't matter, a child is a child and every child deserves a family."
Adopt if you need to be a mother. Invetro. Just don't give up on love.
Hope this helps hon.
2006-06-22 20:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by â? º»Ã?â?¥ Kandi â?¥Ã?Ǽâ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if you have been with him that long and you really love him then go for it . You must have something good going on for both of you to still be together that long.As far as the baby thing, maybe you guys should both get checked to see what the problem is. YES marry him
2006-06-22 20:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by Monique G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should be married to get pregnant. Then if you decide to want to spend your life with this guy you should think of adoption because who to say that he has the problem, (it very well could be you)
2006-06-22 20:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by doctorfeelgood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a decision you have to make for yourself. Has he seen a physician and are you sure he can't give you children? Do you want kids? Are you opposed to adoption or a sperm donor?
Just becaue he can't have kids with you doesn't mean that you can't marry him and still have children. You just need to talk to him and see where you both stand on the issue of children. Talk about and be honest with eachother.
2006-06-22 20:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you love him and want him for a mate. The fact that you aren't pregnant i do not recognize as a qualifier for marriage!
2006-06-22 21:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you *wanting* to be pregnant? If I were you I'd go to the doctor and see if everything's all right down below there. Same for him. Besides, marriage shouldn't be based on whether your spouse can impregnate you....
2006-06-22 20:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by tranquilitti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem could be yours and not his. Go get checked out before you judge him. Also, true love should not depend on someones ability to father your children. There is so much more to it.
2006-06-22 20:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs.King 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋