Does a spouse who doesn't want you to have his email password have something to hide? He has mine and has as far as I know never checked my email. I would never check his either unless he knew about it. He seems very defensive when we talk about it. All the couple I know share an email address. Just curious on this subject.
2006-06-22 13:19:02 · 20 answers · asked by suzy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Red flags!
2006-06-22 13:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously hiding something and it's already a red flag that he gets defensive when you talk about it. Hire a private investigator if you are suspicious on your spouse. It's a good investment and you'll get the answers you're looking for!
2006-06-22 20:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by choosinghappiness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
red flags! red flags! I knew my ex husbands passwords to everything except porn sites, and I know my fiances passwords to everything (he didn't know how to use a computer until I taught him a year ago, so I had to show him how to set up passwords, etc). I only check his e-mail if I absolutely have to, and even then I let him know about it. He knows mine and he never checks it, as far as I know. It's called a matter of trusting your fg/bf or spouse.
2006-06-22 20:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YESSSSSS try to find it im sure you'll find ALOT of interesting things on his email!!! no wat you do is never ask for the password over the phone cos he'll have enough time to delete stuff of so what you do is when you are both home go sit infront of the comp and ask him for his password and tell him IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE GIVE IT TO ME!! then you will know for sure just make sure he cant get to it before you be smart about it !! GOODLUCK
2006-06-23 01:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by bellitarose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM. Obviously this suspicious behavior is going to cause negative thoughts on your side. Tell him, "hey, I gave you my password to show you that I have no reason to believe that anything I do with my email would incriminate me, why don't you feel the same way? DO YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO HIDE?"
2006-06-22 20:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by hh4pres 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i asked my wife for her email pw after showing her my email, she has been chatcheating on me, she has done it before, she hides her email because she has guys emailing her im sure, so a person who hides things from their spouse has something to hide, answers like its private should send up a warning flag, if your spouse is not sharing email pw then you can be pretty sure something is wrong
2006-06-22 20:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by bigdaddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt want you to know his email pass word then I would think he was hiding something.My husband and I both have the same pass word but I never look at his and I dont think he looks at mine,besides we dont have anything to hide.
2006-06-22 21:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to know get a keylogger prog, just search keylogger it will cost you ,depends how much your peace of mind is worth to you.I wish I'd known about it over the past few years and caught mine out at the time.
2006-06-22 20:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by loveconquersall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't mean he has something to hide. Just means that he wants to keep his privacy and so should you. Being married doesn't mean that you give up those rights, and you don't have to share everything. Some things should just be kept separate.
2006-06-22 20:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by js 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be a woman...why are women so interested in making sure that a man has nothing that is "his". Get a job or something to take your mind off your insecurities
2006-06-22 20:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋