i hang out with a group of people and one of these guys is a complete jerk to me. i am indian and i am not perfect. apparently, this guy makes fun of everything i do and thinks that he is the sh*t. he doesnt treat anyone else this way and i have no idea what i did wrong that i have to deserve this. hes irish and hes pretty conservative in the way that only white people should live in america, however he hangs out with asians and other indians all the time. wtf should i do to get this guy to stop being a deutche to me and start treating me like everyone else?
2006-06-22 13:08:23 · 11 answers · asked by dbmistry88 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just so you know, im a guy. and its just a group of friends, we hang out and stuff, fyi, thats all
2006-06-22 13:20:31 · update #1
Unfortunately ignorance knows no barriers and unlike this jerk doesn't discriminate. He probably picks on you because you are a gentle soul and he's a bully. He's not your friend and you need to stay away from him.
I don't understand how your other friends who are of a different culture can stand to be around him. If they don't know his ignorant stand on this subject then tell them and let them know you wont' be keeping company with this Cretan. Spend time with them without him and explain to them why.
I don't think they will want or should want to hang around with him especially with the way he feels about other cultures.
He probably hangs out with other cultures because other white people don't want to listen to his s**t and avoid him because they don't want to be painted with the same brush as him.
You have done nothing wrong but just be in the wrong place at the wrong time.
Good luck and know that all Irish or white people in general don't feel the same way.
2006-06-22 13:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by marianlaughs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently it's not your heritage he doesn't like. I learned along time ago that there is no "rule" saying you have to like everyone you meet. If I were you, I'd just ignore his sorry butt and don't let him get a wiff of that anger you have. Why are you worried anyway?? He's not your bosom buddy and never will be. Just be nice, respectful and "represent" yourself as more of a man than he will ever be. Don't let him know it hurts you. Find some other friends to hang with, Dude. God Bless.
2006-06-22 20:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sing this song to your irish friend:
"2 irishmen 2 irishmen, digging in a ditch.
one called the other one a dirty son-of-a
peter murphy had a dog, a very fine dog was she
he gave her to his lady friend to keep her company
she feed him, she breed him, she taught him how to jump,
she jumped up his irish skirt and bit him on the
cocktail, gingeraile, 5 cents a glass,
if you don't like my story, you can kiss my grand ole'
ask me no questions i'll tell you no lies
if you get hit with a bucket of sh*t, be sure to close your eyes.
2006-06-22 21:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by beau 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a tshirt that reads "I am indian rasict" then give it to him when the other friend aren't around and tell him to open it up when he gets home. If you don't do anything then don't cry. If this is something that piss up off, then take action.
2006-06-22 20:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not your friend either contront him with how you feel and if that dosen't work, stop talking to him. if you have to, find a whole new group of friends then when the other guys ask you whats up tell them how you feel. if they are around when he treats u that way then they will understand why you feel that way. your real friends wouldn't disrespect you that way.
2006-06-22 20:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by Pimpin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aint afraid of him tell his azz...fuuuucccckkkk you and talk sh!t right back to him. not to get into a fight but dont let him disrespect you and make you feel like less of a person.
Or you can always kill him with kindness (not kissin his azz).
2006-06-22 20:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should sit down with him and tell him how u feel, because u dont want to continue your friendship with him cause hes going to do the same thing over and over again.once an asshole always and asshole until u speak up for yourself
2006-06-22 20:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by potgoldpeaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's easy just don't be around him and if people ask you why you've suddenly stopped speaking with him tell them your reasons for this, you don't deserve disrespect
2006-06-22 20:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE PROBABLY LIKES YOU IF NOT HES A JERK. BEST OF LUCK AND I HOPE I HELPED=)
2006-06-22 20:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by allie baby <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not worth it, walk away from him
2006-06-22 20:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by want fun in the sun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋