2006-06-22 13:04:59 · 19 answers · asked by Infra 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Yenko wins.
2006-06-22 17:08:16 · update #1
In most cases, when someone is making fun of someone they are doing it because of some kind of insecurity thing inside of them. They lash out at something that someone else has in order to not have to face something that they have. Does that make sense? I was told a long time ago that when a person points a finger that there are three fingers pointing back at the person doing the pointing.
Those "jerks" must have a problem. It is not all about handsome. It is about character and feeling and being real and they just do not get it. I understand. I have never been the "handsome" guy that makes people stop and take a second look. I am a nice guy. Sure, I have been over-looked by people. I understand the feeling. It sucks. Sad to say, it is how our society is today. They always use the "beautiful" people to sell products. You never see a chunky girl dive into the pool, swim to the ladder, climb out of the pool and say, "I got this way drinking diet coke." It is life.
Be you. The hell with them. Be the beautiful guy that you are. The ones that matter will notice. You will not have to wear a mask. You will be and you are beautiful, just as you are.
I hope that I said what I meant to say and it makes sense.
2006-06-22 16:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gosh that isn't cool of them. It shouldnt matter if you are handsome or not, (although I'm sure you are just fine) work is not the place to be insulted. I would try throwing a few sarcastic remarks their way. If they say something particuallry rude, just warp it and throw it back at them. Like this... 'Yeah, well that's not what you're sister said last night.' Or something to that effect. You could also try joking with them. Be like...'Come on,you guys know I'm a sexy B@!8&' and then walk off. Dont beat anyone up, unless of course if you want to be fired. They could press charges and then you'd be in a bigger mess then you think you are now. Just remember to keep your cool, and that people are cruel,mostly because they themselves are insecure.
2006-06-22 20:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly. You are nice. That is one quality those people don't have. There are always those people that just can't go through their day without being rude and hurtful to other people. I say ignore them and go on. You are the nice guy here and who really cares what others think anyway? One day they will get what is coming to them and you can stand on the sidelines and watch as they get the same hurt feelings you get now. Hope things get better for you .
2006-06-22 20:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by Nece 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time for you to stop being "nice" if these rude people are making fun of you.
Stand your ground, look them square in the eye and say in a stern tone of voice, "I don't appreciate your cruel and rude remarks. I expect you to respect me and be kind to me as I am to you."
If they don't get it, completely stop associating with them. Maybe it's time to either let the boss know or find a new job.
2006-06-22 20:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... it sounds like you work in a really cruel unhappy place...
Tell your boss that it bothers you.
I would try to find some nicer people to hang around with. They don't sound very mature... if the company does not do well, it's probably their fault. I would not tolerate that kind of employee and would probably just get rid of them.
Good luck and don't stop being nice... we need more nice people in this world.
2006-06-22 20:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by rabble rouser 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given the question... do they make fun of you for your looks? That's what is sounds like. You should not make fun back at them.
Tactfully tell them you don't appreciate their comments and if it persists, inform your manager that your fellow employees are not creating a productive work environment for you.
2006-06-22 20:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by Matt Cummins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore it, everyone is handsome or beautiful anyway. they are probably jealous of how good of an employee you are. If it gets really bad, dont be afraid to tell the person in charge about whats happening
2006-06-22 20:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by wild4wallace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i'm i will judge them as mean as it sounds and say they are jackasses i would just focus on work and ignore them because they are not so cool if they make fun of you foor that! So just maintain focus and ignore tham as long as you know you arent as shallow and bitchy as them!
2006-06-22 20:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by bsktballchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make fun of them right back.
Better yet, record thier insults and then sue for harassment.
2006-06-22 20:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by alias_dictus_tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell em off and stop being such a psuh over.
2006-06-22 20:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋