going through phone logs and personal conversations
2006-06-22 12:26:52 · 16 answers · asked by catsrina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In a healty relationship you need trust and a little personal space so its not really is it ok but why do you feel the need?
2006-06-22 12:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by odoyal4912 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO under no circumstances is okay to go through someone elses personal things. How would you feel if she pick up your phone and started going through that, and numbers she didn't know she called. Or what about text msgs. or ims would you like it if she imed or texted people she didn't know? I don't think you would, so what makes it okay for you to do it to her. Think of it like this, if you don't want it done to you then don't do it to her!!
2006-06-22 12:35:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jolliegurl04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were going through them without her knowing I would say no.
But if she is with you at the time and she lets you then fine.
I let my boyfriend go through my phone if he wants to in front of me because I haven't anything to hide. But if I found out he did so when I wasn't looking then I'd be pissed off because its a sign that he doesn't trust me.
2006-06-22 12:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend goes through my phone and my things all the time. I know he just wants to check up on me, but i really don't like it.
2006-06-22 12:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by misomeow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look my boyfriend doesn't go through my things but if he did I have nothing to hide. Just like i don't go thrugh he's things but if I did he has nothing to hide. But not all girls are like that some girls don't want anyone going through there things and doesn't mean that they are hiding something sometimes it just means that they want privcy and there things is the only privcy. think about it do you want her going through your things?
2006-06-22 12:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by junclekitty86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. Each person should have thier own privacy just like you wouldn't want her going through your stuff. If you dont trust her ask her.
2006-06-22 12:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by hubby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, it depends. If you are doing these things when shes not around then its not ok. That means that you have some insecurities.
Now, if you are doing it when shes there and she sees you and accepts it than it's ok but by then you already know she has nothing to hide.
2006-06-22 12:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by Momo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not ok b/cause sounds like you really don't trust her. And if there's no trust then you don't have nothing.And besides when you look for trouble you will find it.
2006-06-22 12:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by tessie35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no never going through ur grl friends things means that u dont trust her @ all and u think u r big stuff to look thorugh her stuff just stop doing it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-22 12:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by Ally. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. get a life why don't you call some ppl and get over your insecurities.
2006-06-22 12:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by QUEEN OF LOS ANGELES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋