is there a secret you wouldn't tell your spouse or do you tell them everything?
2006-06-22 12:22:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I tell my husband EVERYTHING!! !There is nothing I have done that I am ashamed of to the point that It would hurt anyone in my family or my spouse.
Honesty is a must in a relationship!
These other women that have slept around on the other hand, will have another story.
They must have the concept of marriage all mixed up
2006-06-23 07:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't tell my spouse everything, but what I do tell him is, if you want to ask me anything I will answer the truth (this applies to my past), but, don't ask a question that you don't want to hear the answer to.
Besides, I don't do anything that I can't answer for, since we have been married. My husband is very good to me, I don't want to do anything that will hurt him, not purposely anyway. What I did in my past can not be changed, what count is what I do in my future with him.
2006-06-22 20:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by Cherokee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife tells me everything and i tell her everything. This is the way it is supposed to be. The only thing we dont tell each other is if we have a present around birthday or Christmas time for each other.
2006-06-22 21:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by Fast Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell my husband everything. It's just not possible to keep secrets from him It's called honesty.
2006-06-22 19:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am not married, yet, to my man but we do live together & I have been married before. So do I qualify to respond? ;-)
I am firm believer the HONESTY IS ALWAYS THE BEST POLICY!!!
I can work with "knowing the truth", I can't work with lies or simply not knowing & believe me, sooner or later, what you don't tell, will be discovered!!
2006-06-22 19:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by maryannmccarthy2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep secrets secret. It's good for you and for him. The past should remain the past or it will tarnish the present and the future.
2006-06-22 22:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always tell my husband everything if I flirt with a guy, or I check out a guy, if a guy comes up to me or anything he doesn't get upset
2006-06-22 19:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by ~Ms Eli~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell my hubby everything. I hadn't always been like that, but I realized it's way better to be honest than to keep things in.
2006-06-22 19:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just lay our your soul cause you want to unburden, but if they ask,, then yes you answer honestly.
A spouse should be able to trust and without honesty there can be no real trust.
2006-06-22 19:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few things in my past that I have not shared with my husband and I have no intention of sharing them with him. It is part of my past, not my life now with him.
2006-06-22 19:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋