Im 3 months pregnant and know noticed.i would tell him but the only thing holding me back is that if i tell my boyfriend he mite be mad cause i had cheated on him and he mite think that it not his
would you tell him or not?
2006-06-22 12:19:22 · 17 answers · asked by sexymaimay 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Who cares what he has to say or do? You get to have a child, a child that is yours and beautiful and perfect. Focus on yourself and your child. Men are going to do whatever they think is easier. Eventually that child might want to know who daddy is, so testing could be done afterwards. Women would do so much better if they put themselves and their opinions first!
2006-06-22 12:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Starlight 5 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Yes I would tell him, as hard as it may be I would. You need to speak up soon, you may only be three months along now, but you are going to start showing real soo. You need to just get it out and over with. The sooner the better. You should be able to enjoy your pregnancy not live in fear of the day everyone knows. Stress isn't good for you or your little one. You should enjoy this time and anticipate the birth with joy. If your boyfriend leaves it is better you know now. Besides you can always do a DNA test to reassure your boyfriend. Congratulations and enjoy this time there is nothing like it. Smiles babe :)
2006-06-22 19:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by chamilton92071 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him , but i would not be upset if he thinks the baby is not his. I just have a question for you, im not trying to judge you or anything, but i would seriously like to know, do you love this man? and if the answer is yes then how could you let another man touch you? I mean what kind of a relationship do the two of you have where one cheats and its ok, i dont get it?
2006-06-22 19:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by austinandjomasmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him and your family ASAP...you're just going to look silly when everyone starts asking you because you'll be showing soon. Just tell him. If he gets mad then get the whole thing over and done with now, rather than later, when you don't need the stress. Good luck
2006-06-22 19:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by bubba boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that i cheated on my bf with now his ex friend he was accusing me to much so i went ahead and did it. found out 3 weeks after i was pregnant! i was shocked and knew i couldnt go along w the pregnancy it might not have been my boyfriends. he knew what i did from his friends but i denied it at that time , he took me to the abortion clinic go everything done with. went through with me on everything then a month after i told him the truth even tho he knew. we decided it was best for the abortion and now were trying to make a baby that we both will know will be his
2006-06-22 21:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by lovesugarkisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well seeing as how it could be his baby, I think you should tell him. If it were me, I know I would. But if he thinks it isn't his, maybe you should tell the guy who you cheated with. It's only fair to assume that he could be the father as well. I wouldn't blame your boyfriend too much either; he is right for being suspicious.
2006-06-22 19:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by skaur1290 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're better off the sooner ya tell him. There'll be a point where he's going to know regardless. Waiting, will make it harder, not easier to deal with. It's not gonna be pleasant, but will only get worse, the longer you wait.
2006-06-22 19:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell him. If there is the possibility that it might not be his you need to let him now that too. As soon as it is born get a paternity test.
2006-06-22 19:47:55 · answer #8 · answered by The Invisible Woman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your gonna tell him eventually,you cant hide it forever.your gonna start showing soon.all you can do is wait till you give birth and do a pertinity at the hospital.its free if you have medical card.well i have it cuz im close to poor.im a single mother of two girls and im 17 .does that explain it :) i'd like to know what you decide to do.plz email me at maribelm2005@yahoo.com
2006-06-23 12:20:02 · answer #9 · answered by mari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dam that is messed up but if you are sure that it is his tell him he needs to man up and take responsiblty for the kid and you . Have you told the other guy well good luck on that one but tell him it is the best thing to do.
2006-06-22 19:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know for sure that it is his?
If so you definitely should tell him and if he thinks it is not his tell him to get a paternity test done when the baby is born.
2006-06-22 19:23:16 · answer #11 · answered by jpickrell1199 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋