please help me guys act like its no big deal to tell girls they love them and the next day tell u its over and they have been with ur best friend
2006-06-22 12:05:48 · 19 answers · asked by BreyB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because guys values in a relationship are not the same as girls. When girls are selecting a mate they are thinking ahead will he be a good provider. Guys usually think shes hot testosterone really rules men.
2006-06-22 12:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by chrome_rider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you must be dating the wrong guys if they all break your heart? First love yourself, I'm not saying you don't already. But; one thing I've learned in dating when you really love yourself it is harder for your heart to be broken. Not all guys will break your heart. There are good guys out there, I found one. But; it took years to find! Like the old phrase "You got to kiss a lot of frogs to find your Prince" Keep your head up girl, men are *****... Remember their maturity is way behind ours. That's why they play so many games! Good luck!!!
2006-06-22 12:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by MissSmartt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys really don't get emotionally involved in relationships until they are in their twenties. And I am sorry to break this to you, but some never learn the meaning of the word love. Become a person you yourself would like to date, and you will find a real winner.
2006-06-22 12:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by deana_joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men are wired different then women. It is a big deal and I hate players so just keep being strong prince charming will come your way someday until then do things that make you happy and if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you are with. I am still waiting myself.
2006-06-22 12:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just say they love you to see the reaction they will get and if they don't like it they leave. Or in other cases they just do it so they can go and brag to their buddies. I think it also depends on the guy too.
2006-06-22 15:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys ...honest.
It sounds like you have a problem with choosing both boyfriends and best friends. May I suggest another social circle?
2006-06-22 12:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, half of men's brain are filled with sex and the other parts well I'm not sure myself! I'm not sure if all men are like this but they use you and when there bored of you, get tired of you they leave you for another and it continues! Yes, it's true!
2006-06-22 12:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by yoyohil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, guys simply are not that emotional over such things. Most times they did not even love the girl, even slightly, they just said it because she wanted him too.
2006-06-22 12:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you're attracting the wrong kind of guys (Jerks). Be open-minded and try a different type of guy.
2006-06-22 12:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they break girls hearts cause its part og there ego. cause inside there prolly crying but it would be un-manly to cry about it so they keep it to themselves. it may look like they think its not that big of a deal but it is.
2006-06-22 12:08:10 · answer #10 · answered by i love youuu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋